Hummingbird Meadows |
I agree. You could get criminal charges. |
El Cuco |
Getting physical will only turn you into the bad guy, regardless of anyone's opinion on if it was deserved or not. |
FirstLightFarms |
If he's been off and tired why didn't you investigate earlier? It sounds like she had permission and didn't realize that permission had expired. |
Wild West Warmbloods |
I wish there was, like, a chat history, so you could go in and see what has fallen off the screen |
Savannah Stables |
If shes saying it was the first time, im not sure him being tired is the best evidence. Surely someone at the barn would have seen her? |
Dark Choc |
Dawnmist Thank you!!! Was wondering what people are valuing more in horses haha. Will try to balance good stats with rare appearances |
Autumn Leaf |
Puck You call that a miscommunication? Solar Yep ! Bird Mhm- She was saying it was a misunderstanding, and it was her first time actually doing it, but in the last few months, Gargoyle seemed off his normal routine and a LOT more tired than normal |
ghost light stables |
Win I've got 6 horses (one Shetland pony and 5 full sized) Reba is my goobie red head mare she can be the average red mare but she loves kisses and taking drinks out of your drink Star is a very ancient mare I'm rehabbing (she's like 38) Blu is the shetland whose stars bestie Shinner is my heart horse he has almost all of the flaws a horse can have (anxious spooky he rears strikes and bucks etc) but he's a goobie boy Bama is my wonder pony who can literally do any discipline without hesitation And cabee is my old grumpy man who has sides of iron a mouth of steel and a attitude lol |
Dark Choc |
@puck Could hardly call that a miscommunication, if the friend was doing it for 3 months without mentioning about it once to Autumn. Yeah a slap could have been avoided, but this was still very disrespectful and misleading from the other party |
Dawnmist Stables |
@Choc Not the greatest horse for the market (people looking for E or W stats, not sure about color rarity), but what matters is if YOU like him. soemtimes the game is taking a horse that others think is meh and making them amazing |
Autumn Leaf |
Dawn (?) Anyway, I think she understood my point. Also, I did actually think something happened- The stall door was wide open, and the guy who takes care of my horses, normally shuts it after leading the horse out/ in |
Hummingbird Meadows |
@Win, oof yeah it's bad she didn't agree to not ride him anymore. I say get a camera and alert the barn manager. |
Dawnmist Stables |
I guess I'd take a breather, then later see if you can get a reason from her. If it's relatively innocuous, tell her what you'd want her to do in the future in a similar situation. I imagine it was kind of scary to find your horse just gone, so maybe let her know that too so she understands. I just hate seeing friends fight. They precious <3 |
Autumn Leaf |
Dusty I might actually get a camera into the stall.. It's a good idea Bird She just left offended by my slap- But I think she won't ride him anymore |
Silver Melody Acres |
Win Tell the barn that you're the only one that's allowed to ride him, and anyone else you specifically says has permission |
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El Cuco |
Getting physical will only turn you into the bad guy, regardless of anyone's opinion on if it was deserved or not. |
FirstLightFarms |
If he's been off and tired why didn't you investigate earlier? It sounds like she had permission and didn't realize that permission had expired. |
Wild West Warmbloods |
I wish there was, like, a chat history, so you could go in and see what has fallen off the screen |
Savannah Stables |
If shes saying it was the first time, im not sure him being tired is the best evidence. Surely someone at the barn would have seen her? |
Dark Choc |
Dawnmist Thank you!!! Was wondering what people are valuing more in horses haha. Will try to balance good stats with rare appearances |
Autumn Leaf |
Puck You call that a miscommunication? Solar Yep ! Bird Mhm- She was saying it was a misunderstanding, and it was her first time actually doing it, but in the last few months, Gargoyle seemed off his normal routine and a LOT more tired than normal |
ghost light stables |
Win I've got 6 horses (one Shetland pony and 5 full sized) Reba is my goobie red head mare she can be the average red mare but she loves kisses and taking drinks out of your drink Star is a very ancient mare I'm rehabbing (she's like 38) Blu is the shetland whose stars bestie Shinner is my heart horse he has almost all of the flaws a horse can have (anxious spooky he rears strikes and bucks etc) but he's a goobie boy Bama is my wonder pony who can literally do any discipline without hesitation And cabee is my old grumpy man who has sides of iron a mouth of steel and a attitude lol |
Dark Choc |
@puck Could hardly call that a miscommunication, if the friend was doing it for 3 months without mentioning about it once to Autumn. Yeah a slap could have been avoided, but this was still very disrespectful and misleading from the other party |
Dawnmist Stables |
@Choc Not the greatest horse for the market (people looking for E or W stats, not sure about color rarity), but what matters is if YOU like him. soemtimes the game is taking a horse that others think is meh and making them amazing |
Autumn Leaf |
Dawn (?) Anyway, I think she understood my point. Also, I did actually think something happened- The stall door was wide open, and the guy who takes care of my horses, normally shuts it after leading the horse out/ in |
Hummingbird Meadows |
@Win, oof yeah it's bad she didn't agree to not ride him anymore. I say get a camera and alert the barn manager. |
Dawnmist Stables |
I guess I'd take a breather, then later see if you can get a reason from her. If it's relatively innocuous, tell her what you'd want her to do in the future in a similar situation. I imagine it was kind of scary to find your horse just gone, so maybe let her know that too so she understands. I just hate seeing friends fight. They precious <3 |
Autumn Leaf |
Dusty I might actually get a camera into the stall.. It's a good idea Bird She just left offended by my slap- But I think she won't ride him anymore |
Silver Melody Acres |
Win Tell the barn that you're the only one that's allowed to ride him, and anyone else you specifically says has permission |
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