| Cataclysm |
| Thank you ^^" |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| I hadn’t even had my first kiss yet when the chef used to harass me. And then my “friend” forced himself on me when I was 19, I couldn’t go near men for a long time afterwards. Thankfully I’ve mostly healed now, I only recently had a breakdown over it after a gyno appointment last week |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| That’s so terrible Fang :( at such a young age too. My heart breaks for you |
| Whitewolf |
| For most of my adult life I did not want a man to touch me I mean any way. Just kissing. Holding hands. I got past that at 22/23 with my ex. Thankfully. |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| The club itself wasn’t bad, we were just the restaurant. It was managed separately. If it makes you feel better, my old boss declared bankruptcy last year so atleast the business didn’t work out lol |
| Whitewolf |
| I’ve only been assaulted by my step grandpa - the reason I never called him grandpa. From 7-10 or so. But I never told my parents. And I don’t even know why. Maybe I was scared back then. I don’t remember. |
| Stormsong Manor |
| It's happened to one in three of us, and those are just the women who admit to it |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| That’s terrible Ven, I’m sorry you had to deal with that. People are so horrible sometimes. I was assaulted by a close friend of mine a few years ago and even my mum blamed me. You’re strong for surviving <3 |
| Whitewolf |
| Oof. No doubt, it definitely sounds awful then :( character building for sure. I don’t have any experience with yachts - never even seen one - but nice to know how (some) of them treat their young employees |
| Stormsong Manor |
| I was assaulted by the manager of my first job in the food industry, worked there from 15 to almost 18, and didn't talk about it until I was an adult |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| Yeah it was, i was freshly 18, the chef made sexual comments about me and touched me inappropriately for work, he was 50 at the time. And I had a few customers hit on me too but they weren’t as bad |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| Oh god no, I hated it so much. My boss stole my super money from my paychecks. The chef used to sexually harass me and verbally abuse me. I was 18, it was my first job and I was expected to be the manager and I had to protect the younger girls from the chef and customers. I’d dread going into work so much I’d have breakdowns, it was a good character building experience though and gave me good skills to deal with tough situations |
| Whitewolf |
| Definitely will be trying. I used to sit at a church down the road until closer to 8, after we talked, but there’s no point in that anymore |
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| Red Hill Hollow |
| I hadn’t even had my first kiss yet when the chef used to harass me. And then my “friend” forced himself on me when I was 19, I couldn’t go near men for a long time afterwards. Thankfully I’ve mostly healed now, I only recently had a breakdown over it after a gyno appointment last week |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| That’s so terrible Fang :( at such a young age too. My heart breaks for you |
| Whitewolf |
| For most of my adult life I did not want a man to touch me I mean any way. Just kissing. Holding hands. I got past that at 22/23 with my ex. Thankfully. |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| The club itself wasn’t bad, we were just the restaurant. It was managed separately. If it makes you feel better, my old boss declared bankruptcy last year so atleast the business didn’t work out lol |
| Whitewolf |
| I’ve only been assaulted by my step grandpa - the reason I never called him grandpa. From 7-10 or so. But I never told my parents. And I don’t even know why. Maybe I was scared back then. I don’t remember. |
| Stormsong Manor |
| It's happened to one in three of us, and those are just the women who admit to it |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| That’s terrible Ven, I’m sorry you had to deal with that. People are so horrible sometimes. I was assaulted by a close friend of mine a few years ago and even my mum blamed me. You’re strong for surviving <3 |
| Whitewolf |
| Oof. No doubt, it definitely sounds awful then :( character building for sure. I don’t have any experience with yachts - never even seen one - but nice to know how (some) of them treat their young employees |
| Stormsong Manor |
| I was assaulted by the manager of my first job in the food industry, worked there from 15 to almost 18, and didn't talk about it until I was an adult |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| Yeah it was, i was freshly 18, the chef made sexual comments about me and touched me inappropriately for work, he was 50 at the time. And I had a few customers hit on me too but they weren’t as bad |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| Oh god no, I hated it so much. My boss stole my super money from my paychecks. The chef used to sexually harass me and verbally abuse me. I was 18, it was my first job and I was expected to be the manager and I had to protect the younger girls from the chef and customers. I’d dread going into work so much I’d have breakdowns, it was a good character building experience though and gave me good skills to deal with tough situations |
| Whitewolf |
| Definitely will be trying. I used to sit at a church down the road until closer to 8, after we talked, but there’s no point in that anymore |
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Training Gauge
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