Moderate Temperatures and Overcast| Red Hill Hollow |
| Raven, Sometimes he doesn’t even notice when I cry in front of him. It wasn’t like this in the beginning but now we’ve been together for almost 2 years and I live with him. If we were to break up I’d be homeless and jobless and I’d have to drop out of uni. So it’s a tough situation |
| Ravenwood Farm |
| Honestly Red, if my partner reacted that way to me just sharing my feelings (and didn't realize it was wrong after and regretted it), I would lose feelings so fast. In my opinion it's a sign of not caring, and I wouldn't feel safe and valued anymore in the relationship |
| Nightingales Ridge |
| Relationships definitely require open discussions though. I'm sorry he keeps shutting them down that's not cool |
| Ashcroft Park Stud |
| In my (limited) experience, partners commenting negatively on my appearance were impossible to satisfy (and hardly perfection themselves!). Just remember you are lovely the way you are <3 |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| Yes fuck my ex lol But yeah thank you, I’m gonna try writing out my feelings and I’ll talk to him about it a bit later |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| Thanks Val <3 and thank you too min <3 I really appreciate the advice. Really means a lot :) I’m gonna log off and do some mindfulness bc I can feel myself getting worked up. I hope you all have a great day/night you’re all amazing <3 |
| Vahana Hollow |
| (This is for your current relationship, not about your ex, Red. Fuck that guy. Lol.) |
| Vahana Hollow |
| In my experience, males often need to be guided on how to provide the emotional support us females may need at times. (This is not to say all men and all females, just in my experience, lol.) If he really cares, I would talk to him about the situation, tell him what you need in those situations, and he should make an effort to provide that. |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| Not even the worst thing that he did. He used to send me thirst traps of other girls and ask me why I didn’t look like them. Def hurt my self esteem. Yeah I think so, I just don’t know how to go about giving him one |
| Minerva |
| Jeez- glad he's your ex!! Sounds like this guy might just need a bit of a wake up call maybe? |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| I know that logically but it feels like I am. My ex used to turn everything back around on me and told me I was the problem everytime and blamed me for everything that went wrong in our relationship :( so I’m just scared of that happening again |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| Min, He does. He’s like my best friend. He makes me laugh and makes me feel special and important. I do know that he could treat me better, even his mum said so. And my mum said she doesn’t see us lasting long term. But idk, I’ve never had a healthy relationship and this is the best one I’ve been in yet so idk what’s normal and what’s not |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| My first proper boyfriend abused me really badly emotionally and now I can never bring up my feelings or talk about things that bother me without feeling like I’m in the wrong. I’ll be ok though :) I’m just having an emotional episode |
| Minerva |
| ...does he improve your life at all? Because it sounds like he treats you like dogshit not gonna lie 😬 |
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| Red Hill Hollow |
| Raven, Sometimes he doesn’t even notice when I cry in front of him. It wasn’t like this in the beginning but now we’ve been together for almost 2 years and I live with him. If we were to break up I’d be homeless and jobless and I’d have to drop out of uni. So it’s a tough situation |
| Ravenwood Farm |
| Honestly Red, if my partner reacted that way to me just sharing my feelings (and didn't realize it was wrong after and regretted it), I would lose feelings so fast. In my opinion it's a sign of not caring, and I wouldn't feel safe and valued anymore in the relationship |
| Nightingales Ridge |
| Relationships definitely require open discussions though. I'm sorry he keeps shutting them down that's not cool |
| Ashcroft Park Stud |
| In my (limited) experience, partners commenting negatively on my appearance were impossible to satisfy (and hardly perfection themselves!). Just remember you are lovely the way you are <3 |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| Yes fuck my ex lol But yeah thank you, I’m gonna try writing out my feelings and I’ll talk to him about it a bit later |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| Thanks Val <3 and thank you too min <3 I really appreciate the advice. Really means a lot :) I’m gonna log off and do some mindfulness bc I can feel myself getting worked up. I hope you all have a great day/night you’re all amazing <3 |
| Vahana Hollow |
| (This is for your current relationship, not about your ex, Red. Fuck that guy. Lol.) |
| Vahana Hollow |
| In my experience, males often need to be guided on how to provide the emotional support us females may need at times. (This is not to say all men and all females, just in my experience, lol.) If he really cares, I would talk to him about the situation, tell him what you need in those situations, and he should make an effort to provide that. |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| Not even the worst thing that he did. He used to send me thirst traps of other girls and ask me why I didn’t look like them. Def hurt my self esteem. Yeah I think so, I just don’t know how to go about giving him one |
| Minerva |
| Jeez- glad he's your ex!! Sounds like this guy might just need a bit of a wake up call maybe? |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| I know that logically but it feels like I am. My ex used to turn everything back around on me and told me I was the problem everytime and blamed me for everything that went wrong in our relationship :( so I’m just scared of that happening again |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| Min, He does. He’s like my best friend. He makes me laugh and makes me feel special and important. I do know that he could treat me better, even his mum said so. And my mum said she doesn’t see us lasting long term. But idk, I’ve never had a healthy relationship and this is the best one I’ve been in yet so idk what’s normal and what’s not |
| Red Hill Hollow |
| My first proper boyfriend abused me really badly emotionally and now I can never bring up my feelings or talk about things that bother me without feeling like I’m in the wrong. I’ll be ok though :) I’m just having an emotional episode |
| Minerva |
| ...does he improve your life at all? Because it sounds like he treats you like dogshit not gonna lie 😬 |
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