Windy with Flurries| Gem Queens Estate |
| I think this is his problem... Nervous energy Sometimes, people move closer when they feel anxious or stressed. In such instances, a coworker hovering during a tense conversation may not be intentionally invading your space, but simply seeking reassurance or support. Introverts might experience this as pressure, while extroverts thrive on proximity. |
| Nordic Designs |
| Mostly same boulder except... Im eepy sleepy all the time so when I do go its a rare occasion and normal hours but every single time it ravenously tickles my social anxiety from people being in my muthafuggin bubble XD |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @keo I agree. And I only work part time in a grocery store. When I get more hours, it'll be more nuts to deal with. lol |
| Boulder Creek |
| I don't leave the house if I don't have to, to avoid people. And go late at night to the stores |
| Palomino Mountain |
| My fave memory when I was a kid is a lady intentionally hit me with her cart. Knocked me over etc and my dad flipped her cart of groceries right there in the store :) |
| Nordic Designs |
| 30 in June here, But I've also been in the military for the last 11.5 years and within the last 7 months Ive been given 94 people to be in charge of and they have tested every last one of my nerves, and disappointed me even when I expected to be disappointed |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @keo LMAO I'm a noodle half out of the pot. Somethings I'm firm and others I'm a wimp. I'm also facing 30 in March... O.o |
| Nordic Designs |
| like these MF's know better!!!! why you testing strangers limits!?!? do you not see the news? |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| lol I did something similar to a customer once. I spooked for a second, then spun around like ??! and directly looked in her face. Oh sorry and back up immediately was the response. |
| Nordic Designs |
| I have gone from an over cooked noodle of a spine, to a very rigid and pissed off spine over the last year... Must be the fact Im facing 30 this year XD |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @eury Horse kick? lol @keo Sounds good. I'll see about an opportunity to tell him nicely about his personal space invasion habit. And figure out what to said first so I don't ramble or beat around the bush. Thank you everyone for being a sounding board. :) |
| Nordic Designs |
| "are you uncomfortable? ok so am I. Please remain out of my space, thank you" |
| Nordic Designs |
| I think the next time someone is up my ass in a line like that I'm going to just turn around and face them and stare at them.. its going to be so uncomfortably close.. but if I can smell your breath youre too close |
| Nordic Designs |
| Yeah its really funny how fast they stop when you set a boundary |
| The Old Gods |
| Pft. I didn't hold back. They quickly backed up though and stopped crowding me lol |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @keo Yes. I need more confidence in confronting people on my limits. I'd probably address a problem in behalf of someone else better. >.< @puck Oh my! Well taught. lol This guy is too nice to do that move unless he gets touchy or something. |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @eury Crikey! I had to do something similar as a teenager. A cart in my ankles/calf will be pushed back lady. >.> She pushed back and I nearly kicked it. Got her and my parents attention. It stopped without a word thankfully. |
| Nordic Designs |
| No context was needed, if you were being crowded thats all Ive got to hear. If it was enough for you to be bumped you, in my opinion are well within your right to shove that cart back into their stupid gut XD |
| FirstLightFarms |
| This was way back when, in high school, but I had a friend that would NOT stop hugging me no matter what I said, so he ran up to hug me from behind and I spun to confront him and accidentally kneed him in the. uh. area. anyways he had to go to the nurse and go home early and he never tried to surprise hug me again. Some people gotta learn the hard way 💀 |
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| Gem Queens Estate |
| I think this is his problem... Nervous energy Sometimes, people move closer when they feel anxious or stressed. In such instances, a coworker hovering during a tense conversation may not be intentionally invading your space, but simply seeking reassurance or support. Introverts might experience this as pressure, while extroverts thrive on proximity. |
| Nordic Designs |
| Mostly same boulder except... Im eepy sleepy all the time so when I do go its a rare occasion and normal hours but every single time it ravenously tickles my social anxiety from people being in my muthafuggin bubble XD |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @keo I agree. And I only work part time in a grocery store. When I get more hours, it'll be more nuts to deal with. lol |
| Boulder Creek |
| I don't leave the house if I don't have to, to avoid people. And go late at night to the stores |
| Palomino Mountain |
| My fave memory when I was a kid is a lady intentionally hit me with her cart. Knocked me over etc and my dad flipped her cart of groceries right there in the store :) |
| Nordic Designs |
| 30 in June here, But I've also been in the military for the last 11.5 years and within the last 7 months Ive been given 94 people to be in charge of and they have tested every last one of my nerves, and disappointed me even when I expected to be disappointed |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @keo LMAO I'm a noodle half out of the pot. Somethings I'm firm and others I'm a wimp. I'm also facing 30 in March... O.o |
| Nordic Designs |
| like these MF's know better!!!! why you testing strangers limits!?!? do you not see the news? |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| lol I did something similar to a customer once. I spooked for a second, then spun around like ??! and directly looked in her face. Oh sorry and back up immediately was the response. |
| Nordic Designs |
| I have gone from an over cooked noodle of a spine, to a very rigid and pissed off spine over the last year... Must be the fact Im facing 30 this year XD |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @eury Horse kick? lol @keo Sounds good. I'll see about an opportunity to tell him nicely about his personal space invasion habit. And figure out what to said first so I don't ramble or beat around the bush. Thank you everyone for being a sounding board. :) |
| Nordic Designs |
| "are you uncomfortable? ok so am I. Please remain out of my space, thank you" |
| Nordic Designs |
| I think the next time someone is up my ass in a line like that I'm going to just turn around and face them and stare at them.. its going to be so uncomfortably close.. but if I can smell your breath youre too close |
| Nordic Designs |
| Yeah its really funny how fast they stop when you set a boundary |
| The Old Gods |
| Pft. I didn't hold back. They quickly backed up though and stopped crowding me lol |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @keo Yes. I need more confidence in confronting people on my limits. I'd probably address a problem in behalf of someone else better. >.< @puck Oh my! Well taught. lol This guy is too nice to do that move unless he gets touchy or something. |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @eury Crikey! I had to do something similar as a teenager. A cart in my ankles/calf will be pushed back lady. >.> She pushed back and I nearly kicked it. Got her and my parents attention. It stopped without a word thankfully. |
| Nordic Designs |
| No context was needed, if you were being crowded thats all Ive got to hear. If it was enough for you to be bumped you, in my opinion are well within your right to shove that cart back into their stupid gut XD |
| FirstLightFarms |
| This was way back when, in high school, but I had a friend that would NOT stop hugging me no matter what I said, so he ran up to hug me from behind and I spun to confront him and accidentally kneed him in the. uh. area. anyways he had to go to the nurse and go home early and he never tried to surprise hug me again. Some people gotta learn the hard way 💀 |
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