| Cadence Farms |
| You could work for a charity. Your work would benefit society. :) |
Afternoon Storms, then Clearing| Nightingales Ridge |
| My brother studied animation...he's now a plasterer and painter. My friend was a builder but now he's a cop |
| E.T. Eventing |
| I just feel like there’s no job in the world I could make my own. And I know nothing will ever be 100% that way, but i don’t know, with all my beliefs about how society is structured most jobs I find something that’d compromise who I am. For example just selling products or working for a mass production company - I feel like everything is drive by this economic greed and we aren’t getting any closer to a better society. And I just might feel like if I’m contributing to that, or even staying neutral in my work, that I’m just enforcing it. |
| Slow Stream Stables |
| I agree, I wanted to be a Vet only last year, now I'm planning classes for my journey to zoology! My dream is to go to the University of Florida and be a zoologist down there! <3 |
| Gaelic Gladiacres |
| zrek - I would say look to what you value most in the world, and be willing to give different things a try. you may just do something different for some years before doing the thing you really enjoy, and that's ok. we're all constantly learning, especially about ourselves, and more often than not we don't know until we try, and then we know. --said from someone who's had a pretty decent spread of experiences, and all of them inform where I am now |
| Nightingales Ridge |
| Aw it's okay I'm 27 and still winging it. Just know everything is temporary; whether that's days, months, years. This gift of life is a blessing do the best you can! Ignore people who try to tear you down...YOU deem what is success. Don't be afraid to choose a path because you are worried you may change your mind. Many do! Live my friend |
| Slow Stream Stables |
| I feel bad but I don't think I can help with that one, only being in high school and all <3 |
| Moonlight Equestrian |
| Exactly* and I mean from an educational standpoint. I'm doing a double major and plan on higher education too, just not quite sure which avenue yet |
| Moonlight Equestrian |
| Zrek honestly take your time and don't put too much pressure on yourself! I still don't exaclt know what I want to do, just doing stuff that interests me and learning along the way |
| Luxor Ranch |
| I graduated with a bachelors degree I'm not currently using at a full time job, nor have I ever, and I've been in so many different positions it would make your head spin. I'm happily settled in higher education but it took a while and a lot of learning about myself |
| E.T. Eventing |
| Brook - it’s just that it doesn’t feel that simple. Follow your heart is wonderful and people tell me that all the time, but the thing is my heart is telling me conflicting things. And on top of that there’s real world finances and goals that I can only meet by being financially sound. |
| Slow Stream Stables |
| Just follow your heart and If you want to do something, stick to it! Don't change it if you enjoy it! |
| E.T. Eventing |
| Do y’all have any advice? I feel like it’s all I come here for now lol. Lately I’ve been trying to figure out who I am and how I wanna spend my time on this planet and all that jazz, but it’s just so overwhelming. I feel like I have so many things I could do and there’s so many things that could go right or wrong, on top of no matter what I do it’ll always be wrong in some way, and I just am not sure with the connecting values I have which ones to prioritize. I just never feel like me - like I’m just falling through different universes or something. I dunno. |
| Slow Stream Stables |
| Finally found someone else that does have 3 kids and is about to end there Bachelor's Degree lol! I'm starting High school to! No hate to anyone by the way <3 |
| Nightingales Ridge |
| Ooh true I agree. I miss living rural but where I am is quite nice. I hated living in auckland for 2 years that I did |
| Moonlight Equestrian |
| I was yes! At uni in one of the big towns now, I still live rural though so my commute in for labs is diabolical. Still better than living in the city though! |
| Nightingales Ridge |
| Oooo are you at a rural school? My nz highschool was surrounded by sheep paddock and a motorcross track |
| Moonlight Equestrian |
| I'm in NZ and we had like 20-30 remaining year 13 students so last year not sure what that is in the states, meant when I moved to that school everyone else knew my address before I did and the gossip was so rampant lol. Definitely recommend finding other weird kids and staying out of the political social stuff of school. Learning can always be fun but other kids not so much |
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| Nightingales Ridge |
| My brother studied animation...he's now a plasterer and painter. My friend was a builder but now he's a cop |
| E.T. Eventing |
| I just feel like there’s no job in the world I could make my own. And I know nothing will ever be 100% that way, but i don’t know, with all my beliefs about how society is structured most jobs I find something that’d compromise who I am. For example just selling products or working for a mass production company - I feel like everything is drive by this economic greed and we aren’t getting any closer to a better society. And I just might feel like if I’m contributing to that, or even staying neutral in my work, that I’m just enforcing it. |
| Slow Stream Stables |
| I agree, I wanted to be a Vet only last year, now I'm planning classes for my journey to zoology! My dream is to go to the University of Florida and be a zoologist down there! <3 |
| Gaelic Gladiacres |
| zrek - I would say look to what you value most in the world, and be willing to give different things a try. you may just do something different for some years before doing the thing you really enjoy, and that's ok. we're all constantly learning, especially about ourselves, and more often than not we don't know until we try, and then we know. --said from someone who's had a pretty decent spread of experiences, and all of them inform where I am now |
| Nightingales Ridge |
| Aw it's okay I'm 27 and still winging it. Just know everything is temporary; whether that's days, months, years. This gift of life is a blessing do the best you can! Ignore people who try to tear you down...YOU deem what is success. Don't be afraid to choose a path because you are worried you may change your mind. Many do! Live my friend |
| Slow Stream Stables |
| I feel bad but I don't think I can help with that one, only being in high school and all <3 |
| Moonlight Equestrian |
| Exactly* and I mean from an educational standpoint. I'm doing a double major and plan on higher education too, just not quite sure which avenue yet |
| Moonlight Equestrian |
| Zrek honestly take your time and don't put too much pressure on yourself! I still don't exaclt know what I want to do, just doing stuff that interests me and learning along the way |
| Luxor Ranch |
| I graduated with a bachelors degree I'm not currently using at a full time job, nor have I ever, and I've been in so many different positions it would make your head spin. I'm happily settled in higher education but it took a while and a lot of learning about myself |
| E.T. Eventing |
| Brook - it’s just that it doesn’t feel that simple. Follow your heart is wonderful and people tell me that all the time, but the thing is my heart is telling me conflicting things. And on top of that there’s real world finances and goals that I can only meet by being financially sound. |
| Slow Stream Stables |
| Just follow your heart and If you want to do something, stick to it! Don't change it if you enjoy it! |
| E.T. Eventing |
| Do y’all have any advice? I feel like it’s all I come here for now lol. Lately I’ve been trying to figure out who I am and how I wanna spend my time on this planet and all that jazz, but it’s just so overwhelming. I feel like I have so many things I could do and there’s so many things that could go right or wrong, on top of no matter what I do it’ll always be wrong in some way, and I just am not sure with the connecting values I have which ones to prioritize. I just never feel like me - like I’m just falling through different universes or something. I dunno. |
| Slow Stream Stables |
| Finally found someone else that does have 3 kids and is about to end there Bachelor's Degree lol! I'm starting High school to! No hate to anyone by the way <3 |
| Nightingales Ridge |
| Ooh true I agree. I miss living rural but where I am is quite nice. I hated living in auckland for 2 years that I did |
| Moonlight Equestrian |
| I was yes! At uni in one of the big towns now, I still live rural though so my commute in for labs is diabolical. Still better than living in the city though! |
| Nightingales Ridge |
| Oooo are you at a rural school? My nz highschool was surrounded by sheep paddock and a motorcross track |
| Moonlight Equestrian |
| I'm in NZ and we had like 20-30 remaining year 13 students so last year not sure what that is in the states, meant when I moved to that school everyone else knew my address before I did and the gossip was so rampant lol. Definitely recommend finding other weird kids and staying out of the political social stuff of school. Learning can always be fun but other kids not so much |
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