| Stormsong Manor |
| That's very true. But something about the elitism and competitiveness in the horse world seems to aggravate it |
Sunny and Warmer| Stormsong Manor |
| That's very true. But something about the elitism and competitiveness in the horse world seems to aggravate it |
| Calela Eventing |
| Ven Tell me about it! I’m in a pretty small town as well so there’s not many options. Last barn I was at, the trainer emotionally abused me and forced me into unpaid labour. Sick women she was. What I need is a bigger backyard and screw all this barn nonsense |
| Glacier Bay Cove |
| In agreement with them concerning having your parents be involved, also if you have a personal voice recorder, that you can keep in your pocket, that would also provide evidence of how she treats you |
| Stormsong Manor |
| Not calling your experience stupid, just have way too many hours invested in the horse world to kid myself that there isn't drama in pretty much every barn lol |
| Hellion Ridge |
| I would try to capture her on video threatening you. If you did pursue legal action then that would be great evidence. |
| Calela Eventing |
| Ven I’m going to do that, thanks Honestly I also find it incredibly pathetic that she feels the need to treat a child like this |
| Stormsong Manor |
| Document all of her behavior in interactions with you in as much detail as you can, with recordings being preferable. That's what you personally can do |
| Enchanted Nights |
| Yeah, unfortunately you're a minor so you'd have to get your parents to do so if you were to get a restraining order. It's all up to them |
| Calela Eventing |
| Jeri Yeah, when they’re actually around I will. My father has stepped and expressed wanting to file some sort of complaint to get her away from me as well |
| Maco Stables |
| Wow, what a pathetic lady. I'm sorry you had to go through that, defenetly seek your parents advice |
| Enchanted Nights |
| I wouldn't personally get a restraining order. I'd report her but I wouldn't go that far quite yet. Restraining orders require a lot of court and it's intimidating at the least. She's a grown woman and should not be talking the way she is. I'd report her, but nothing else yet. That's my view. Stay safe <3 |
| Angels angels |
| I am proud of myself. I need two more straws they are 20k each. But I may have to use LCs if the owner doesn't get online but I have plenty of ebs. Way more than I need for the straws and RO lol |
| Calela Eventing |
| How did the papering process go and what is the necessary incidents to aquire law access to a restraining order |
| Stormsong Manor |
| 110% consult actual legal counsel to explore your options if you feel you're in the position for a restraining order |
| Calela Eventing |
| Okay so there’s someone who boards at my livery barn and she’s so awful to me. Last time I was there she screamed in my face, swore at me and threatened me and my horse. I’m 13 and she’s somewhat in her 40s with two kids. I’ve dealt with emotional abuse before and it sets me off hearing her scream. I felt sick for days afterwards and even her name makes me feel sick. I want her to fuck off and leave me alone, my parents got involved and the barn said that the lady is sooo nice and would never . I don’t know what to do but I panic at the sound of her name now and yeah. |
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| Stormsong Manor |
| That's very true. But something about the elitism and competitiveness in the horse world seems to aggravate it |
| Calela Eventing |
| Ven Tell me about it! I’m in a pretty small town as well so there’s not many options. Last barn I was at, the trainer emotionally abused me and forced me into unpaid labour. Sick women she was. What I need is a bigger backyard and screw all this barn nonsense |
| Glacier Bay Cove |
| In agreement with them concerning having your parents be involved, also if you have a personal voice recorder, that you can keep in your pocket, that would also provide evidence of how she treats you |
| Stormsong Manor |
| Not calling your experience stupid, just have way too many hours invested in the horse world to kid myself that there isn't drama in pretty much every barn lol |
| Hellion Ridge |
| I would try to capture her on video threatening you. If you did pursue legal action then that would be great evidence. |
| Calela Eventing |
| Ven I’m going to do that, thanks Honestly I also find it incredibly pathetic that she feels the need to treat a child like this |
| Stormsong Manor |
| Document all of her behavior in interactions with you in as much detail as you can, with recordings being preferable. That's what you personally can do |
| Enchanted Nights |
| Yeah, unfortunately you're a minor so you'd have to get your parents to do so if you were to get a restraining order. It's all up to them |
| Calela Eventing |
| Jeri Yeah, when they’re actually around I will. My father has stepped and expressed wanting to file some sort of complaint to get her away from me as well |
| Maco Stables |
| Wow, what a pathetic lady. I'm sorry you had to go through that, defenetly seek your parents advice |
| Enchanted Nights |
| I wouldn't personally get a restraining order. I'd report her but I wouldn't go that far quite yet. Restraining orders require a lot of court and it's intimidating at the least. She's a grown woman and should not be talking the way she is. I'd report her, but nothing else yet. That's my view. Stay safe <3 |
| Angels angels |
| I am proud of myself. I need two more straws they are 20k each. But I may have to use LCs if the owner doesn't get online but I have plenty of ebs. Way more than I need for the straws and RO lol |
| Calela Eventing |
| How did the papering process go and what is the necessary incidents to aquire law access to a restraining order |
| Stormsong Manor |
| 110% consult actual legal counsel to explore your options if you feel you're in the position for a restraining order |
| Calela Eventing |
| Okay so there’s someone who boards at my livery barn and she’s so awful to me. Last time I was there she screamed in my face, swore at me and threatened me and my horse. I’m 13 and she’s somewhat in her 40s with two kids. I’ve dealt with emotional abuse before and it sets me off hearing her scream. I felt sick for days afterwards and even her name makes me feel sick. I want her to fuck off and leave me alone, my parents got involved and the barn said that the lady is sooo nice and would never . I don’t know what to do but I panic at the sound of her name now and yeah. |
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