| The Old Gods |
| Mm. Sometimes it's better to keep the inside thoughts inside. Saying what you think can and will cause trouble as you get older. |
Showers Off and On| The Old Gods |
| Mm. Sometimes it's better to keep the inside thoughts inside. Saying what you think can and will cause trouble as you get older. |
| Transformers Acres |
| Ryn You said what you thought, that's valid. It's better than keeping it in, letting is fester into something worse. Your feelings and thoughts are valid. |
| Minerva |
| Not sure what someone's put in my brother's dinner today but he's come home like a new human being 0-0 Sat and chatted to Mum and I for the longest time in years and even threw in what I think was a compliment 0-0 |
| Morning Glory Farms |
| like I said unless you know for sure whats going on behind closed doors (three sides to every story) its always better to just mind your own and go with "if you have nothing nice to say dont say anything at all" youre welcome to have your own thoughts and feelings about things, but it doesnt need to be voiced 90% of the time 🤷🏽♀️ just my opinion |
| The Old Gods |
| Okay? That doesn't mean anything. My bio dad remarried and I considered her my other mom, even though I rarely saw her. |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| The mother has the kid almost 24/7 so my cousin doesn’t even get to see her like that She gets to see her maybe twice every other week if that |
| The Old Gods |
| Yup. Had a step-dad that treated me like baggage. Ain't a fun feeling. Frankly, it's one of those situation where you should have kept your thoughts to yourself. The statement she made about mother's day ultimately hurts no one |
| Morning Glory Farms |
| Probably wouldnt have said anything, who knows maybe this is the first time the kid has had someone to look up to as a mother, maybe her own mother is useless or god knows what, as for what she said to her sister just because one person says shitty things to someone doesnt mean you also have to say shitty things to someone, Id much rather someone be active and willing in a realtionship to accept the already existing kids than to treat them like trash and baggage |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| I don’t know I guess It just rubbed me the wrong way so I said something for once |
| Whispering Wood Barn |
| Now maybe if it's been a year or more then.... 🤷🏼♀️ but if they were engaged to be married or married that would make more sense to me. Anything can happen when you are dating. |
| The Old Gods |
| Honestly, I see it as one of those situations where it's just better to not say anything and let them be happy. |
| The Old Gods |
| I considered my step-dad more of a parent than my biological dad pretty early on. |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| Of course parents don’t have to be blood, but I think it takes more than just being with the father to count as a parent especially for such little time |
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| The Old Gods |
| Mm. Sometimes it's better to keep the inside thoughts inside. Saying what you think can and will cause trouble as you get older. |
| Transformers Acres |
| Ryn You said what you thought, that's valid. It's better than keeping it in, letting is fester into something worse. Your feelings and thoughts are valid. |
| Minerva |
| Not sure what someone's put in my brother's dinner today but he's come home like a new human being 0-0 Sat and chatted to Mum and I for the longest time in years and even threw in what I think was a compliment 0-0 |
| Morning Glory Farms |
| like I said unless you know for sure whats going on behind closed doors (three sides to every story) its always better to just mind your own and go with "if you have nothing nice to say dont say anything at all" youre welcome to have your own thoughts and feelings about things, but it doesnt need to be voiced 90% of the time 🤷🏽♀️ just my opinion |
| The Old Gods |
| Okay? That doesn't mean anything. My bio dad remarried and I considered her my other mom, even though I rarely saw her. |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| The mother has the kid almost 24/7 so my cousin doesn’t even get to see her like that She gets to see her maybe twice every other week if that |
| The Old Gods |
| Yup. Had a step-dad that treated me like baggage. Ain't a fun feeling. Frankly, it's one of those situation where you should have kept your thoughts to yourself. The statement she made about mother's day ultimately hurts no one |
| Morning Glory Farms |
| Probably wouldnt have said anything, who knows maybe this is the first time the kid has had someone to look up to as a mother, maybe her own mother is useless or god knows what, as for what she said to her sister just because one person says shitty things to someone doesnt mean you also have to say shitty things to someone, Id much rather someone be active and willing in a realtionship to accept the already existing kids than to treat them like trash and baggage |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| I don’t know I guess It just rubbed me the wrong way so I said something for once |
| Whispering Wood Barn |
| Now maybe if it's been a year or more then.... 🤷🏼♀️ but if they were engaged to be married or married that would make more sense to me. Anything can happen when you are dating. |
| The Old Gods |
| Honestly, I see it as one of those situations where it's just better to not say anything and let them be happy. |
| The Old Gods |
| I considered my step-dad more of a parent than my biological dad pretty early on. |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| Of course parents don’t have to be blood, but I think it takes more than just being with the father to count as a parent especially for such little time |
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