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MellowMares
06:16:26 
oh yea thats an old way parents would try to get their teens not to smoke xD "youre gunna sit here and smoke that entire pack ,youll learn your lesson to not smoke after that" like ok grandpa, thats not how that works , yea theyll get super sick but its pushing them more towards addiction lol
sun rise stable
06:16:19 
do it
sun rise stable
06:15:59 
guys i need help o do not know of i sould sell all my horses and get anglos and breed them or if i sould just not to it
Red Hill Hollow
06:15:44 Red, Hollow
For me it was my mental health and wanting people to like me. After a lot of therapy I’ve realised I don’t need to do dumb stuff like that. My bf is amazing and he supports me, he doesn’t smoke or drink himself
Whisper Creek Ranch
06:15:14 
Adding in, I mean like... when he was still considered a kid lol - way under age
Whisper Creek Ranch
06:14:45 
Dimmy
Yeah, this was ages ago, back when my dad would be allowed to go inside a liquor store and buy some for my grandfather lol
Gaelic Gladiacres
06:13:52 Gladius
I don't disagree dimmy, but some people just don't have the willpower to do it alone--there has to be a system to help them overcome that

I mean my hubby knows he's got tendencies to alcoholism in his genetics, so he limits himself at all times. but he has a ridiculous willpower and self-motivation
Dimmed
06:13:38 Dimmy
Oh wow Whisper! I'm amazed he would make them do that. I'm assuming that's before there were studies on addictiveness and all
MellowMares
06:13:08 
hollow- youre more then allowed to set some boundaries with your partner about it as well! like no smoking in the house, or have one room designated to it for example. when my partner and i first got our house that was a big rule we had prior to purchase (luckily all our rentals didnt allow indoor smoking, so he was already in the habbit of smoking outside ) but we set the rule to garage only, as the previous owners already smoked there so i didnt care but wanted to keep the house clean / smoke free
Gaelic Gladiacres
06:12:33 Gladius
yeah if you have addictive history in your family it's often best to steer 100% clear rather than be tempted, but it's certainly easier said than done
Red Hill Hollow
06:12:18 Red, Hollow
Mellow,
Yes same here. When I was 19 I moved from my VERY small town to live in dorms at uni 4 hours away. I fell into some horrible habits from my peers. I grew up very sheltered so I wanted to try everything. Vapes were terrible bc they were so easily accessible and cheap enough. And they tasted amazing lol I still have the voice in my head telling me to vape. Even tho it’s been 2 years since I last touched one
Dimmed
06:11:56 Dimmy
Although I stand by it, if you set values and standards for yourself and keep to them you can avoid being drawn into that to an extent
Whisper Creek Ranch
06:11:35 
Stress is a big factor in me smoking (and starting originally) - but growing up with my dad constantly smoking kind of helped pave the way, even though I swore I would never do it, as it essentially is what lead him to his grave.

Stress is a better factor than what my dad and his brother were put through as kids - my grandfather didn't want them smoking, so made them sit down and smoke an entire pack together (made them super sick) - but they both just carried granddad's addiction genes and eventually picked it up anyways
Gaelic Gladiacres
06:11:06 Gladius
I don't like the idea for myself either but I completely get where people are coming from--which is why support systems are so important
Dimmed
06:11:05 Dimmy
I apologize if it came off that way, that wasn't my intention
MellowMares
06:11:01 
totally agree dimmy!! had to learn all that the hard way in my teens lol but i feel like i got all that "party mentality" out of my system super young lol so now in my late 20s i like to be in bed by like 9pm xD
Gaelic Gladiacres
06:10:39 Gladius
dimmy that feels dismissive of the struggles with abuse, mental health, and access that a lot of people have which is why they turn to addictive substances
Dimmed
06:10:30 Dimmy
I've never understood the joy of sucking in flavored air 😂😂
Dimmed
06:09:49 Dimmy
See I never had any interest in people who smoked or drank in high school. I avoided them. I'd never date anyone who smoked. It's easy to not get in those situations, you just have to set standards of respect and value for yourself
Red Hill Hollow
06:09:43 Red, Hollow
Yeah, I get that :( my parents ( especially my mum) were very anti smoking so I never got exposed to that really as a child. I’m still fairly young now so living with my BF is my first real exposure to smoking households. It’s been very eye opening

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MellowMares
06:16:26 
oh yea thats an old way parents would try to get their teens not to smoke xD "youre gunna sit here and smoke that entire pack ,youll learn your lesson to not smoke after that" like ok grandpa, thats not how that works , yea theyll get super sick but its pushing them more towards addiction lol
sun rise stable
06:16:19 
do it
sun rise stable
06:15:59 
guys i need help o do not know of i sould sell all my horses and get anglos and breed them or if i sould just not to it
Red Hill Hollow
06:15:44 Red, Hollow
For me it was my mental health and wanting people to like me. After a lot of therapy I’ve realised I don’t need to do dumb stuff like that. My bf is amazing and he supports me, he doesn’t smoke or drink himself
Whisper Creek Ranch
06:15:14 
Adding in, I mean like... when he was still considered a kid lol - way under age
Whisper Creek Ranch
06:14:45 
Dimmy
Yeah, this was ages ago, back when my dad would be allowed to go inside a liquor store and buy some for my grandfather lol
Gaelic Gladiacres
06:13:52 Gladius
I don't disagree dimmy, but some people just don't have the willpower to do it alone--there has to be a system to help them overcome that

I mean my hubby knows he's got tendencies to alcoholism in his genetics, so he limits himself at all times. but he has a ridiculous willpower and self-motivation
Dimmed
06:13:38 Dimmy
Oh wow Whisper! I'm amazed he would make them do that. I'm assuming that's before there were studies on addictiveness and all
MellowMares
06:13:08 
hollow- youre more then allowed to set some boundaries with your partner about it as well! like no smoking in the house, or have one room designated to it for example. when my partner and i first got our house that was a big rule we had prior to purchase (luckily all our rentals didnt allow indoor smoking, so he was already in the habbit of smoking outside ) but we set the rule to garage only, as the previous owners already smoked there so i didnt care but wanted to keep the house clean / smoke free
Gaelic Gladiacres
06:12:33 Gladius
yeah if you have addictive history in your family it's often best to steer 100% clear rather than be tempted, but it's certainly easier said than done
Red Hill Hollow
06:12:18 Red, Hollow
Mellow,
Yes same here. When I was 19 I moved from my VERY small town to live in dorms at uni 4 hours away. I fell into some horrible habits from my peers. I grew up very sheltered so I wanted to try everything. Vapes were terrible bc they were so easily accessible and cheap enough. And they tasted amazing lol I still have the voice in my head telling me to vape. Even tho it’s been 2 years since I last touched one
Dimmed
06:11:56 Dimmy
Although I stand by it, if you set values and standards for yourself and keep to them you can avoid being drawn into that to an extent
Whisper Creek Ranch
06:11:35 
Stress is a big factor in me smoking (and starting originally) - but growing up with my dad constantly smoking kind of helped pave the way, even though I swore I would never do it, as it essentially is what lead him to his grave.

Stress is a better factor than what my dad and his brother were put through as kids - my grandfather didn't want them smoking, so made them sit down and smoke an entire pack together (made them super sick) - but they both just carried granddad's addiction genes and eventually picked it up anyways
Gaelic Gladiacres
06:11:06 Gladius
I don't like the idea for myself either but I completely get where people are coming from--which is why support systems are so important
Dimmed
06:11:05 Dimmy
I apologize if it came off that way, that wasn't my intention
MellowMares
06:11:01 
totally agree dimmy!! had to learn all that the hard way in my teens lol but i feel like i got all that "party mentality" out of my system super young lol so now in my late 20s i like to be in bed by like 9pm xD
Gaelic Gladiacres
06:10:39 Gladius
dimmy that feels dismissive of the struggles with abuse, mental health, and access that a lot of people have which is why they turn to addictive substances
Dimmed
06:10:30 Dimmy
I've never understood the joy of sucking in flavored air 😂😂
Dimmed
06:09:49 Dimmy
See I never had any interest in people who smoked or drank in high school. I avoided them. I'd never date anyone who smoked. It's easy to not get in those situations, you just have to set standards of respect and value for yourself
Red Hill Hollow
06:09:43 Red, Hollow
Yeah, I get that :( my parents ( especially my mum) were very anti smoking so I never got exposed to that really as a child. I’m still fairly young now so living with my BF is my first real exposure to smoking households. It’s been very eye opening

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Dandelion X Wild 1x1 April 9, 2024 09:36 AM


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Zephyr ducked his head slightly, his raven black hair falling across his dark blue eyes. Darn. How could he be any worse at this. He glanced up as the girl behind Sophia, obviously a friend- Izzy, maybe? He thought that was the name. Kept elbowing her. +I guess we all have annoying friends+ he thought with a concealed smile before definitely looking surprised at the response. He had to remind himself not to look like he just saw a fish in a tree, so he quickly collected himself. As the girl- Izzy.. he hoped he was thinking that right- turned around, Zeph couldn't help but wince slightly at the loud volume. "Uhm... you're acting like I'm a famous celebrity or something. At this point I'm literally just the guy that face planted into the floor and sits alone at lunch." He pointed out with a small snort, running a hand through his hair. Well, he liked that last one. Still, word of this would get around fast- gossip always did when things happened with popular people- so maybe, just maybe, a bunch of not the smartest blonde girls would stop following him around like they were tethered to him. That would be great.
Dandelion X Wild 1x1 April 9, 2024 11:10 AM


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Sophia gave off a soft laugh at Izzy. "Calm down!" She gave her a little shove backwards. "Ok ok but still!" She looked at Zephyr "you are one of the most popular guys in the school and you're asking Sophia?" She looked at Zephyr, her eyes burrowing into his. Sophia shook her head and waved her hand in front of her face. "Earth to Izzy. Izzy?" The girl shook her blonde hair. "What?" Soph gave her a look and Izzy sighed. "Fine. Talk later" the girl walked away, leaving Sophia and Zephyr.
Dandelion X Wild 1x1 April 9, 2024 11:15 AM


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Zephyr lifted his eyebrows slightly, a faint tint of a blush spreading across his cheeks- well, one of them, the one that didn't look like... bad. "I'm not one of the most popular guys in school anymore. I've been demoted." He snorted before continuing. "Aaaand Sophia is much more human than some of the girls out there." His mind flitted over to Lydia with a wince. His gaze shot around for a second before landing on Sophia. "Well... thanks. And I apologize beforehand if this brings unwanted attention to you. I have to admit it is kind of shocking you said yes. Why?" Zeph had to ask that- he was genuinely very curious. He tilted his head a little.
Dandelion X Wild 1x1 April 9, 2024 11:20 AM


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Sophia lowered her gaze "no one has ever asked me to go to a dance... much less even talk to me. The most male conversations I have had has been between me and Blake. I don't know if you know who he is, but he is one of the best wrestlers. He hangs out with me and we've been friends since kindergarten. He's like a brother to me but he's pushing me to far. I hope you don't mind, but I have two reasons for accepting. One: because no one has ever asked me, and Two: maybe it can keep Blake away and finally make him understand that I don't see him as more than a brother. " she shook her head and looked up at Zephyr.
Dandelion X Wild 1x1 April 9, 2024 11:25 AM


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Zephyr couldn't help but be a tiny bit surprised at that. His first thought was +Even Blake?+ but her next words explained that. "I know who he is. I've watched some of his wrestling practices before, as two years ago I was in wrestling. He is good." He agreed quietly before letting her finish. "I don't mind. Really, there's almost always alterior motives. If YOU don't mind, this all started on a dare- a double dare, in my defense, but it only gave me the idea. Don't worry, I asked you because I wanted to and not because of a dare." He smiled faintly. "In any case, I'm surprised no one has asked you before for one, and for two eating is rather important to me so I might have to go do that." Zeph joked. "See you later."
Dandelion X Wild 1x1 April 9, 2024 11:29 AM


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"Thank you. Can I sit with you then? Izzy told me she had some friends she wanted to sit with and I don't want to sit with Blake so..." Sophia kept her eyes downcast so he wouldn't see the hurt in her eyes when he rejects. She knew it was going to happen.
Dandelion X Wild 1x1 April 9, 2024 11:54 AM


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Zephyr was a little bit surprised at that too- the concept of having this thing called a friend had kinda flown out the window after Pete. Peter was really his only *friend*. "You can sit wherever you want. I do feel like adding, though, I don't know why everything thinks being *popular* is so awesome. You have this thing called a friend, right? Izzy seems like a friend, You said yourself Blake was your friend for a long time. Well I only have one *friend* and he's about as not popular as you can get. Hilarious kind amazing guy though. Take Lydia, on the other hand, who may be popular and may have girls following her around like puppets wishing they could be her and guys now hyperventilating because we broke up, but she doesn't have any real friends, and in my opinion she's become really rude and snotty lately. In short, I wish I was much more like you. Anyways sorry for rambling on that was probably REALLY boring." He shook his head slightly and started walking towards the cafeteria. "Aaand I kind of forgot if I answered your question- I'm pretty sure I just gave a very vague not real answer, so sure. I would like it if you sat with me. Just prepared to have no one in miles of you. No one really likes me right now." He joked with a small grin, the first real smile he had in a long time.

Edited at April 9, 2024 12:08 PM by Wild West Warmbloods
Dandelion X Wild 1x1 April 9, 2024 12:07 PM


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"I don't mind it." Sophia replied "no one ever sits with me except for Blake occasionally and Izzy." She closed her sketchbook, but the bottom corner of her drawing was poking out. She held it close to her chest as she walked beside him. Sophia could feel eyes burning a pattern into her back as they passed people. It made her slightly uncomfortable, but she was used to being uncomfortable. She pulled her backpack higher up her shoulder. "Where do you sit?" She asked with a tilt of her head
Dandelion X Wild 1x1 April 9, 2024 12:11 PM


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Zephyr nodded slightly- he wished he had that luxery. He didn't glance around and headed straight to the cafeteria, heading to a back table to put his few things down. "Usually over here." He answered, turning to walk back up to the front. After he got his usual meager rations of food, he went back. He never ate much at school- if he could, he'd only have 1 big meal a day.
Dandelion X Wild 1x1 April 9, 2024 12:21 PM


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She followed him up to the lunch line, grabbing her lunch and gulping down two large spoonfuls before pulling out her sketchbook. "I usually draw when I eat..." she pushed her lunch to the side and doodled a little, taking small bites between strokes

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