Showers Off and On| Morning Glory Farms |
| like I said unless you know for sure whats going on behind closed doors (three sides to every story) its always better to just mind your own and go with "if you have nothing nice to say dont say anything at all" youre welcome to have your own thoughts and feelings about things, but it doesnt need to be voiced 90% of the time 🤷🏽♀️ just my opinion |
| The Old Gods |
| Okay? That doesn't mean anything. My bio dad remarried and I considered her my other mom, even though I rarely saw her. |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| The mother has the kid almost 24/7 so my cousin doesn’t even get to see her like that She gets to see her maybe twice every other week if that |
| The Old Gods |
| Yup. Had a step-dad that treated me like baggage. Ain't a fun feeling. Frankly, it's one of those situation where you should have kept your thoughts to yourself. The statement she made about mother's day ultimately hurts no one |
| Morning Glory Farms |
| Probably wouldnt have said anything, who knows maybe this is the first time the kid has had someone to look up to as a mother, maybe her own mother is useless or god knows what, as for what she said to her sister just because one person says shitty things to someone doesnt mean you also have to say shitty things to someone, Id much rather someone be active and willing in a realtionship to accept the already existing kids than to treat them like trash and baggage |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| I don’t know I guess It just rubbed me the wrong way so I said something for once |
| Whispering Wood Barn |
| Now maybe if it's been a year or more then.... 🤷🏼♀️ but if they were engaged to be married or married that would make more sense to me. Anything can happen when you are dating. |
| The Old Gods |
| Honestly, I see it as one of those situations where it's just better to not say anything and let them be happy. |
| The Old Gods |
| I considered my step-dad more of a parent than my biological dad pretty early on. |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| Of course parents don’t have to be blood, but I think it takes more than just being with the father to count as a parent especially for such little time |
| Whispering Wood Barn |
| Ryn, I think it's fine you spoke your mind. But, 6 months is a bit soon in my opinion even if her and the child have a good/close relationship |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| Mind you her sister is pregnant and she told her that their father will always love the 10 year old more then his own granddaughter when she is born |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| So Was it totally wrong of me saying something to my cousin about her posting “celebrating Mother’s Day🥰” She’s been dating this guy that has a 10 year old for 6 months And I told her that just because she is with him that doesn’t make her a mother and that it’s weird of her for even saying that |
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| Morning Glory Farms |
| like I said unless you know for sure whats going on behind closed doors (three sides to every story) its always better to just mind your own and go with "if you have nothing nice to say dont say anything at all" youre welcome to have your own thoughts and feelings about things, but it doesnt need to be voiced 90% of the time 🤷🏽♀️ just my opinion |
| The Old Gods |
| Okay? That doesn't mean anything. My bio dad remarried and I considered her my other mom, even though I rarely saw her. |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| The mother has the kid almost 24/7 so my cousin doesn’t even get to see her like that She gets to see her maybe twice every other week if that |
| The Old Gods |
| Yup. Had a step-dad that treated me like baggage. Ain't a fun feeling. Frankly, it's one of those situation where you should have kept your thoughts to yourself. The statement she made about mother's day ultimately hurts no one |
| Morning Glory Farms |
| Probably wouldnt have said anything, who knows maybe this is the first time the kid has had someone to look up to as a mother, maybe her own mother is useless or god knows what, as for what she said to her sister just because one person says shitty things to someone doesnt mean you also have to say shitty things to someone, Id much rather someone be active and willing in a realtionship to accept the already existing kids than to treat them like trash and baggage |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| I don’t know I guess It just rubbed me the wrong way so I said something for once |
| Whispering Wood Barn |
| Now maybe if it's been a year or more then.... 🤷🏼♀️ but if they were engaged to be married or married that would make more sense to me. Anything can happen when you are dating. |
| The Old Gods |
| Honestly, I see it as one of those situations where it's just better to not say anything and let them be happy. |
| The Old Gods |
| I considered my step-dad more of a parent than my biological dad pretty early on. |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| Of course parents don’t have to be blood, but I think it takes more than just being with the father to count as a parent especially for such little time |
| Whispering Wood Barn |
| Ryn, I think it's fine you spoke your mind. But, 6 months is a bit soon in my opinion even if her and the child have a good/close relationship |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| Mind you her sister is pregnant and she told her that their father will always love the 10 year old more then his own granddaughter when she is born |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| So Was it totally wrong of me saying something to my cousin about her posting “celebrating Mother’s Day🥰” She’s been dating this guy that has a 10 year old for 6 months And I told her that just because she is with him that doesn’t make her a mother and that it’s weird of her for even saying that |
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