Showers Off and On| Rosemariny |
| Some people are just naturally more confined with being outspoken. And there are cultural and family differences too. Coming from a “recreationally arguing” family the idea that you should just shush and allow people to not consider your feelings at all is wrong to me, but also there is time, space and tone to consider. |
| Transformers Acres |
| Ryn If things go downhill, I'd distance myself, go low-contact. ONLY if it goes downhill, though. |
| Transformers Acres |
| Void I am an adult, I know how the world works. People don't like it? Oh well. |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| I didn’t say anything bad really, I just told her that’s it’s weird especially since she’s only been with him for barley half a year |
| The Old Gods |
| Well, when you get into the adult world, you'll have a rude wake up call. I can safely say I'd get into trouble if I told a coworker who hates it when people use "xmas" that it's a trite and pedantic thing to get upset over. |
| Nightingales Ridge |
| No one situation is the same so I don't judge you for it. Sometimes thought come flowing first before any further thought. But there isn't a right or wrong answer. |
| Transformers Acres |
| Void Em That's YOUR opinion, but I do see those points as well. I was raised with, "If something bothers you, speak your mind on it, don't contain it". So, I am biased. :/ |
| Insignia Elites |
| Feelings and thoughts can be valid but it doesn't mean you have to voice them |
| The Old Gods |
| Mm. Sometimes it's better to keep the inside thoughts inside. Saying what you think can and will cause trouble as you get older. |
| Transformers Acres |
| Ryn You said what you thought, that's valid. It's better than keeping it in, letting is fester into something worse. Your feelings and thoughts are valid. |
| Minerva |
| Not sure what someone's put in my brother's dinner today but he's come home like a new human being 0-0 Sat and chatted to Mum and I for the longest time in years and even threw in what I think was a compliment 0-0 |
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| Rosemariny |
| Some people are just naturally more confined with being outspoken. And there are cultural and family differences too. Coming from a “recreationally arguing” family the idea that you should just shush and allow people to not consider your feelings at all is wrong to me, but also there is time, space and tone to consider. |
| Transformers Acres |
| Ryn If things go downhill, I'd distance myself, go low-contact. ONLY if it goes downhill, though. |
| Transformers Acres |
| Void I am an adult, I know how the world works. People don't like it? Oh well. |
| Ryn Equestrian |
| I didn’t say anything bad really, I just told her that’s it’s weird especially since she’s only been with him for barley half a year |
| The Old Gods |
| Well, when you get into the adult world, you'll have a rude wake up call. I can safely say I'd get into trouble if I told a coworker who hates it when people use "xmas" that it's a trite and pedantic thing to get upset over. |
| Nightingales Ridge |
| No one situation is the same so I don't judge you for it. Sometimes thought come flowing first before any further thought. But there isn't a right or wrong answer. |
| Transformers Acres |
| Void Em That's YOUR opinion, but I do see those points as well. I was raised with, "If something bothers you, speak your mind on it, don't contain it". So, I am biased. :/ |
| Insignia Elites |
| Feelings and thoughts can be valid but it doesn't mean you have to voice them |
| The Old Gods |
| Mm. Sometimes it's better to keep the inside thoughts inside. Saying what you think can and will cause trouble as you get older. |
| Transformers Acres |
| Ryn You said what you thought, that's valid. It's better than keeping it in, letting is fester into something worse. Your feelings and thoughts are valid. |
| Minerva |
| Not sure what someone's put in my brother's dinner today but he's come home like a new human being 0-0 Sat and chatted to Mum and I for the longest time in years and even threw in what I think was a compliment 0-0 |
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