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Versailles
03:48:39 Versa
Realistically, I just don't think some people want others there, was more my point. And will constantly bend and morph rules to try and make you miserable.
Versailles
03:47:45 Versa
Del,
Well, she was whiny in general, too. I was too small to pick up a german shepherd safely and refused, suddenly it was passed off as "refusing work."

Amongst other things.

One time she snapped at me for "snarking" at her when I said, in a polite tone, "alright, I understand" to something she explained.
Escott Estate
03:46:17 ~Del~
Versa,

Thats such an odd reason to fire someone lol
Escott Estate
03:45:45 ~Del~
If thats truly how it is there, then I would start looking for a new position. Working in an environment where you have to constantly second guess yourself is stressful. Not good for the mental :)
Versailles
03:43:19 Versa
My prior internship I got "fired" from. Why? An older lady who was overseeing me and all of my daily activities dropped a can of treats on the floor. She looked really in pain when she bent over to pick them up, so I offered to help.

She looked like I just screamed an insult at her...
Angels angels
03:42:56 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Del
But like I said there is always two workers and we do it all together. The main person I work with and do everything with is the Manager, which is the owners second in command
Escott Estate
03:41:54 ~Del~
Sometimes people will explain how to do something one way but actually complete the task another. We dont always completely verbalize our process. There might be some unspoken rules that are at play here that you can only see if you shadow the task. Im sure this is frustrating.
Angels angels
03:41:41 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Wichypoo
Yep. That is one of the main reasons I left my last job. I worked there for almost 6 years and did everything the same way all those years which is the way I was taught and told by the owner. Then suddenly everything I was doing was wrong.
SandWitch Arabians
03:40:35 Witchypoo
I hate those kinds of Bosses. What's right one day, is wrong the next.
Angels angels
03:40:28 [1k+ brindles] Angel
I mean two workers work every day and we do everything together.
Escott Estate
03:39:44 ~Del~
I would ask to shadow the owner or a coworker again for those tasks. Maybe a step in the task is escaping you and you don’t even realize it.
Transformers Acres
03:39:42 Geek, Eek
Witchypoo

Well, the owner can't have it both ways. They can't train their employees one way, and do the same thing a different way. It's just gonna confuse, and piss off said workers. They get paid to do what they're trained to do.
Angels angels
03:38:24 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Witchypoo
The way I was trained is the way she says it is supposed to be done. I seriously don't understand
Angels angels
03:37:44 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Del
I think so but I don't know. She will say one thing one day then say it is wrong another day. I only do things the way I was told or shown to do but then it is wrong.
SandWitch Arabians
03:37:23 Witchypoo
You're just a 'worker bee'.
Do what you're told, regardless of how you were trained.
Escott Estate
03:36:11 ~Del~
Is the owner the type is person where they need to do things themselves in order for it to feel like it was done right? The issue could have nothing to do with you personally. Are there other workers there you could ask to see if there is something that you might be missing?
Angels angels
03:35:01 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Witchypoo
I thought I was. I was doing everything the way I was trained
Willow Wood Stable
03:34:46 Lo 🌙
And honestly I think getting the upgrade early on made it easier for me to grasp the game early on, too. I feel like I’ve been here way longer than I have.
SandWitch Arabians
03:34:35 Witchypoo
The owner calls the shots.
Do it their way.
Willow Wood Stable
03:34:10 Lo 🌙
I went about 5 days 😂

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Versailles
03:48:39 Versa
Realistically, I just don't think some people want others there, was more my point. And will constantly bend and morph rules to try and make you miserable.
Versailles
03:47:45 Versa
Del,
Well, she was whiny in general, too. I was too small to pick up a german shepherd safely and refused, suddenly it was passed off as "refusing work."

Amongst other things.

One time she snapped at me for "snarking" at her when I said, in a polite tone, "alright, I understand" to something she explained.
Escott Estate
03:46:17 ~Del~
Versa,

Thats such an odd reason to fire someone lol
Escott Estate
03:45:45 ~Del~
If thats truly how it is there, then I would start looking for a new position. Working in an environment where you have to constantly second guess yourself is stressful. Not good for the mental :)
Versailles
03:43:19 Versa
My prior internship I got "fired" from. Why? An older lady who was overseeing me and all of my daily activities dropped a can of treats on the floor. She looked really in pain when she bent over to pick them up, so I offered to help.

She looked like I just screamed an insult at her...
Angels angels
03:42:56 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Del
But like I said there is always two workers and we do it all together. The main person I work with and do everything with is the Manager, which is the owners second in command
Escott Estate
03:41:54 ~Del~
Sometimes people will explain how to do something one way but actually complete the task another. We dont always completely verbalize our process. There might be some unspoken rules that are at play here that you can only see if you shadow the task. Im sure this is frustrating.
Angels angels
03:41:41 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Wichypoo
Yep. That is one of the main reasons I left my last job. I worked there for almost 6 years and did everything the same way all those years which is the way I was taught and told by the owner. Then suddenly everything I was doing was wrong.
SandWitch Arabians
03:40:35 Witchypoo
I hate those kinds of Bosses. What's right one day, is wrong the next.
Angels angels
03:40:28 [1k+ brindles] Angel
I mean two workers work every day and we do everything together.
Escott Estate
03:39:44 ~Del~
I would ask to shadow the owner or a coworker again for those tasks. Maybe a step in the task is escaping you and you don’t even realize it.
Transformers Acres
03:39:42 Geek, Eek
Witchypoo

Well, the owner can't have it both ways. They can't train their employees one way, and do the same thing a different way. It's just gonna confuse, and piss off said workers. They get paid to do what they're trained to do.
Angels angels
03:38:24 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Witchypoo
The way I was trained is the way she says it is supposed to be done. I seriously don't understand
Angels angels
03:37:44 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Del
I think so but I don't know. She will say one thing one day then say it is wrong another day. I only do things the way I was told or shown to do but then it is wrong.
SandWitch Arabians
03:37:23 Witchypoo
You're just a 'worker bee'.
Do what you're told, regardless of how you were trained.
Escott Estate
03:36:11 ~Del~
Is the owner the type is person where they need to do things themselves in order for it to feel like it was done right? The issue could have nothing to do with you personally. Are there other workers there you could ask to see if there is something that you might be missing?
Angels angels
03:35:01 [1k+ brindles] Angel
Witchypoo
I thought I was. I was doing everything the way I was trained
Willow Wood Stable
03:34:46 Lo 🌙
And honestly I think getting the upgrade early on made it easier for me to grasp the game early on, too. I feel like I’ve been here way longer than I have.
SandWitch Arabians
03:34:35 Witchypoo
The owner calls the shots.
Do it their way.
Willow Wood Stable
03:34:10 Lo 🌙
I went about 5 days 😂

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inhand showing? April 8, 2025 10:51 PM


Azrail Elites
 
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In December, I welcomed a new addition to my equine family, an off-the-track Thoroughbred who was previously trained for eventing but did not enjoy that discipline. After careful consideration, I decided to purchase him to focus on barrel racing and Western riding, as I felt he would thrive more in these areas. Although my experience primarily lies in Western riding, I have a keen interest in exploring English disciplines, specifically show jumping and in-hand hacking.
As I delve into the world of in-hand showing, I seek guidance on preparing effectively. One of the most critical aspects is ensuring that I have all the necessary equipment and supplies ready for the show.
So...
What would you recommend?
How do you go about plaiting? night before or on the day of? ( also gel!!)
Do you have a checklist to keep track of every item?
What coat shines have you found best to work on dark bay horses?
Coat Checker patterns?
Next biggest question is
Do you show in standard EQ/ Dressage acquire?
bridle or Leather show halter w curb bit? (Racing halters/trot up)
Just curious on what people recommend :)
inhand showing? April 12, 2025 05:08 AM


Zomb
 
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Honestly, from someone who did showing all her life. Getting everything ready the day before is much easier.
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We bathe and play the day before, the boys have a hood on which protects them. I cant remember off the top of my head what Gel we use, but i do have to plait today so i can add that in later.
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Regarding shine, we use anything Supreme products, especially their spray and shine coat spray. We've used this on: Chestnut, Bay, black you name it we've used it.
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Patterns depends on what you're showing him under.. If show horse we use a nit comb (odd i know) and make the checkered patterns like this: rump patterns - NOTE we use a smaller nit comb for the show ponies
But again if you want to see the bum patterns let me know cause we are off to a show tomorrow.
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How i made sure everything was done is i did it the night before, mental check lists etc. Saturday day time, bathe and plait pony.
Go home, dismantle bridle, clean thoroughly and soak the bit in hot water and clean. Put the bridle back together once cleaned + immediately load it into the lorry. Then i'd do the same with all my clothes etc.
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I did use my usual kit (you can see on the images below) if i was riding too. However, i do also just use smart attire if not riding. Smart tousers (NOT the same colour as the horses legs) white shirt, tie that matches browband and a waist cost (preferably blue).
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Now i am from England and im not sure if its the same where you are but i figured id put my 10 pence in LOL
If anything else, you can PM me :)
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One of the ponies below that i used to turn out myself between the ages of 10-12 (minus the plaiting at that point LOL)
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I absolutely adored my show jacket here
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My little sister riding the same ponio
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EDIT: i know these arent in hand pictures. HOWEVER, it does show the shine product we used (same company) and the condition the plats are in when we did them the night before (pic 1) vs when we rushed them on the day (pic 2) because we were running late due to pony refusing to load (very out of pocket)

Edited at April 12, 2025 05:14 AM by Zomb
inhand showing? April 12, 2025 06:23 PM


Azrail Elites
 
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thank you so much zomb, i really appreciate it!!
we have our first event in a month so nervous about it, and then another in August which is why I asked about this in the first place
I'm located in Aus - my boys on turnout 25/8 unless required for box rest due to my work schedule, we've been practising in-hand trotting in just a halter, still adjusting if its best to get another bridle just for inhand showing.
I'm currently at the point I believe I may just be overthinking it all, so thank you for clarifying!
inhand showing? April 12, 2025 06:41 PM


Zomb
 
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Azrail Elites said:
thank you so much zomb, i really appreciate it!!
we have our first event in a month so nervous about it, and then another in August which is why I asked about this in the first place
I'm located in Aus - my boys on turnout 25/8 unless required for box rest due to my work schedule, we've been practising in-hand trotting in just a halter, still adjusting if its best to get another bridle just for inhand showing.
I'm currently at the point I believe I may just be overthinking it all, so thank you for clarifying!


I would recommend a bridle, snaffle bit. With either a chain to leather lead or just use reins.
If you need any help etc just drop me a PM 😁the thought of it is definitely scarier and if you're an over thinker like myself it is very daunting.
Hope it all goes well!

Edited at April 12, 2025 06:42 PM by Zomb
inhand showing? April 12, 2025 08:51 PM


Azrail Elites
 
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thank you!! yes it is so daunting!! its a complete different aspect, thank you for being open about it!

Zomb said:

Azrail Elites said:
thank you so much zomb, i really appreciate it!!
we have our first event in a month so nervous about it, and then another in August which is why I asked about this in the first place
I'm located in Aus - my boys on turnout 25/8 unless required for box rest due to my work schedule, we've been practising in-hand trotting in just a halter, still adjusting if its best to get another bridle just for inhand showing.
I'm currently at the point I believe I may just be overthinking it all, so thank you for clarifying!


I would recommend a bridle, snaffle bit. With either a chain to leather lead or just use reins.
If you need any help etc just drop me a PM 😁the thought of it is definitely scarier and if you're an over thinker like myself it is very daunting.
Hope it all goes well!



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