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Crestwood Eq.
07:19:58 Ivy / poison ivy
Ta Ta my loves!
Sunni
07:19:57 Sunni bunny
Ivy, it's okay I know you didn't mean it that way, everyone has their reasons.
XD
Crestwood Eq.
07:19:52 Ivy / poison ivy
I must go now
Crestwood Eq.
07:19:45 Ivy / poison ivy
Sunni

Some of the world's smartest people have autism. I probably have some. Just not medically diagnosed.
Sunni
07:18:06 Sunni bunny
But he loves kids,
I believe he has autism.
He can't work to my knowledge but he is extremely smart.
Crestwood Eq.
07:17:20 Ivy / poison ivy
ZEZ

I didn't mean it like that.
Sunni
07:17:14 Sunni bunny
Her other son, isn't even related to my dad. Dad really did some bad things to him growing up.
And she didn't treat him no better.
I still see him as a bother even tho we aren't related.
Crestwood Eq.
07:17:03 Ivy / poison ivy
sunni

poor man
ZequineZ
07:16:51 ZEZ - ZZ
Ivy, As someone who will never have childeren, assuming someone ‘has something against’ them is probably not something best said out loud
Sunni
07:15:58 Sunni bunny
Ivy it's okay, I all ways make the joke I am an open book.
my step brother got messed up in the romantic department.
His girl left him after being together for 1 years.
She apparently been seeing someone behind his back.
She got pregnant within 1 months of leaving him.
Mythological
07:15:44 Crowley
Thanks Sunni
Crestwood Eq.
07:13:40 Ivy / poison ivy
Sunni

Hmm. Suspicious. What's her son got against kids? Sorry i'm being very nosy...
Sunni
07:12:55 Sunni bunny
Ivy I don't trust her with my own children, but she's been oddly nicer to me since I am older.
Probably because she knows her son won't give her grandchildren.
Lynx
My mom has all ways been very understanding about things.
Maybe a little to over protective but she did right with me and my brother.
Sunni
07:11:04 Sunni bunny
Crowley I hope everything goes well.
I'll keep your mom's dog in my prayers tonight.
Lynx Glory
07:10:42 ⛈ whisper/lynx
sunni
bro that's crazy. im glad you're mom was understanding about it though
Crestwood Eq.
07:10:36 Ivy / poison ivy
Sunni

Me too... but i really makes you wonder....
Sunni
07:09:58 Sunni bunny
Ivy I am scared to know what he saw XD.
Id be running to the door.
Crestwood Eq.
07:09:50 Ivy / poison ivy
Well that's good
Sunni
07:09:32 Sunni bunny
We did find out grape seed is really good for a UTI.
I would take it daily and it generally helped easy pain and kept them under control.
I never had to go in medication for them.
Ivy League Acres
07:08:51 Ivy - your slay one
Sunni

i wonder what he saw...

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Crestwood Eq.
07:19:58 Ivy / poison ivy
Ta Ta my loves!
Sunni
07:19:57 Sunni bunny
Ivy, it's okay I know you didn't mean it that way, everyone has their reasons.
XD
Crestwood Eq.
07:19:52 Ivy / poison ivy
I must go now
Crestwood Eq.
07:19:45 Ivy / poison ivy
Sunni

Some of the world's smartest people have autism. I probably have some. Just not medically diagnosed.
Sunni
07:18:06 Sunni bunny
But he loves kids,
I believe he has autism.
He can't work to my knowledge but he is extremely smart.
Crestwood Eq.
07:17:20 Ivy / poison ivy
ZEZ

I didn't mean it like that.
Sunni
07:17:14 Sunni bunny
Her other son, isn't even related to my dad. Dad really did some bad things to him growing up.
And she didn't treat him no better.
I still see him as a bother even tho we aren't related.
Crestwood Eq.
07:17:03 Ivy / poison ivy
sunni

poor man
ZequineZ
07:16:51 ZEZ - ZZ
Ivy, As someone who will never have childeren, assuming someone ‘has something against’ them is probably not something best said out loud
Sunni
07:15:58 Sunni bunny
Ivy it's okay, I all ways make the joke I am an open book.
my step brother got messed up in the romantic department.
His girl left him after being together for 1 years.
She apparently been seeing someone behind his back.
She got pregnant within 1 months of leaving him.
Mythological
07:15:44 Crowley
Thanks Sunni
Crestwood Eq.
07:13:40 Ivy / poison ivy
Sunni

Hmm. Suspicious. What's her son got against kids? Sorry i'm being very nosy...
Sunni
07:12:55 Sunni bunny
Ivy I don't trust her with my own children, but she's been oddly nicer to me since I am older.
Probably because she knows her son won't give her grandchildren.
Lynx
My mom has all ways been very understanding about things.
Maybe a little to over protective but she did right with me and my brother.
Sunni
07:11:04 Sunni bunny
Crowley I hope everything goes well.
I'll keep your mom's dog in my prayers tonight.
Lynx Glory
07:10:42 ⛈ whisper/lynx
sunni
bro that's crazy. im glad you're mom was understanding about it though
Crestwood Eq.
07:10:36 Ivy / poison ivy
Sunni

Me too... but i really makes you wonder....
Sunni
07:09:58 Sunni bunny
Ivy I am scared to know what he saw XD.
Id be running to the door.
Crestwood Eq.
07:09:50 Ivy / poison ivy
Well that's good
Sunni
07:09:32 Sunni bunny
We did find out grape seed is really good for a UTI.
I would take it daily and it generally helped easy pain and kept them under control.
I never had to go in medication for them.
Ivy League Acres
07:08:51 Ivy - your slay one
Sunni

i wonder what he saw...

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Stall Issues August 1, 2022 01:46 PM


Florestä
 
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So, I've recently taken my new mare, June, home. A few days after she was trailered home from where she was purchased, I went to visit her at the boarding facility and decided to take her for a hand walk in the indoor arena. I wasn't planning on doing this, but I decided to just because her stall was only ten feet away from the arena. Anyways, when I tried to bring her back into her stall, I faced some issues. I ended up having to ask the stablehand to help me get her in. I tried having someone go behind her, luring her with treats, turning her.. no success. The stablehand had to push on her hind and put pressure on her side to make her enter. And when she did enter, she ran in, almost trampling the other girl who was leading her. I have ideas as to why she was doing this, but resolving the issue is another deal. My ideas of why she did this include the following:
The aisle that the stall is in is a tight fit.
The stall was darker than outside.
The mare is only four years old.
I felt very uncomfortable in this situation because it was a tighter space and I was worried that she'd rear or go up, as she had done that earlier.
I luckily was able to move her to a more open barn on the property, and not the arena stalls. However, she still is hesitant going in, and I'd hate to be in this situation again. I'd rather not be trampled or see her go up.

Edited at August 1, 2022 01:47 PM by Floresta
Stall Issues August 1, 2022 02:06 PM


FirstLightFarms

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Work on getting her confident going through tight spaces. This will translate into loading onto a trailer better, being comfortable in the barn, etc.
What I do for horses like these is set up obstacles, such as tarps tied across jump standards, to give her the sense of walking through something narrow and dark.
When on the ground, work on the ability to "send" her off. While on a lead rope, if you point, she should walk forward. Sort of like lunging, but nothing faster than a walk, and it's off the lead rope. This helps her confidence, since she'll have to walk ahead of you and lead her own way. Once she's good at this, start sending her through the narrow spaces on her own. At first, keep them wide. She should be able to comfortably walk between the tarps without any claustrophobia. Once she's confident with this, you can start narrowing them.
In the meantime, work on changing both of your perspectives. Don't worry about the stall door. Worry about keeping her at your shoulder, about keeping her relaxed and focused on you. The rest will come with time and patience.
Hope this helps!
Stall Issues August 1, 2022 04:12 PM


Florestä
 
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It definitely does! luckily, we had no issues with her in the trailer. She walked right up with no hesitation.
thank you, Puck!

FirstLightFarms said:
Work on getting her confident going through tight spaces. This will translate into loading onto a trailer better, being comfortable in the barn, etc.
What I do for horses like these is set up obstacles, such as tarps tied across jump standards, to give her the sense of walking through something narrow and dark.
When on the ground, work on the ability to "send" her off. While on a lead rope, if you point, she should walk forward. Sort of like lunging, but nothing faster than a walk, and it's off the lead rope. This helps her confidence, since she'll have to walk ahead of you and lead her own way. Once she's good at this, start sending her through the narrow spaces on her own. At first, keep them wide. She should be able to comfortably walk between the tarps without any claustrophobia. Once she's confident with this, you can start narrowing them.
In the meantime, work on changing both of your perspectives. Don't worry about the stall door. Worry about keeping her at your shoulder, about keeping her relaxed and focused on you. The rest will come with time and patience.
Hope this helps!


Stall Issues August 1, 2022 08:41 PM


Foggy Forest Stables
 
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Dont know her back story, which that always helps.. but I did have a horse with this same issue. Making it difficult when they refuse, and letting off pressure when they take even a small step towards what you want? Completely did miracles for me, even in more situations than this. :)
Stall Issues August 2, 2022 09:49 AM


Thistleberry Farm
 
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i absolutely hate it when horses do this because they are so unpredictable and you never know if they are gonna trample you on their way into the stable...
At my yard there is a small step that the horses have to go up to get into their stables, and when i bought my gelding he didnt want to go into his stable because 1, the stable is darker and 2, the step.
An excersise i did that helped a ton was to se up two wide, ideally dark coloured jump wings with a narrow space in the middle of them in an arena. then you just make your horse walk through them, i used a small dressage whip as encouragement, just tapping it on the ground. It helps them to learn that going through doors and dark narrow spaces isnt always too bad. Also found that holding a carrot on the other side of the two wings helped as encouragement.
Good luck with the new mare!
Stall Issues August 2, 2022 01:08 PM


Florestä
 
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Thank you both! <3

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