| Calela Eventing |
| I was just about to say that. Top riders honestly give me this horrible feeling |
Sunny and Warmer| Calela Eventing |
| I was just about to say that. Top riders honestly give me this horrible feeling |
| Stormsong Manor |
| But look at Charlotte Dujardin. You never know what goes on behind closed doors |
| Stormsong Manor |
| Even worse when they've had a long, successful career on horseback and people look up to them. |
| Calela Eventing |
| Ven Jeez, wow. I cannot stand people like that, they should not be anywhere near horses or children |
| § Stablez |
| Can one post about a club in this chat or would that have to be in sales? |
| Stormsong Manor |
| My mother pulled me from my starting barn as a kid a few years into it because of property negligence that led to someone dying, then I pulled myself out of another barn as an older teen because my trainer snapped and had my friend beat the shit out of her horse in the middle of a lesson. |
| Stormsong Manor |
| That's very true. But something about the elitism and competitiveness in the horse world seems to aggravate it |
| Calela Eventing |
| Ven Tell me about it! I’m in a pretty small town as well so there’s not many options. Last barn I was at, the trainer emotionally abused me and forced me into unpaid labour. Sick women she was. What I need is a bigger backyard and screw all this barn nonsense |
| Glacier Bay Cove |
| In agreement with them concerning having your parents be involved, also if you have a personal voice recorder, that you can keep in your pocket, that would also provide evidence of how she treats you |
| Stormsong Manor |
| Not calling your experience stupid, just have way too many hours invested in the horse world to kid myself that there isn't drama in pretty much every barn lol |
| Hellion Ridge |
| I would try to capture her on video threatening you. If you did pursue legal action then that would be great evidence. |
| Calela Eventing |
| Ven I’m going to do that, thanks Honestly I also find it incredibly pathetic that she feels the need to treat a child like this |
| Stormsong Manor |
| Document all of her behavior in interactions with you in as much detail as you can, with recordings being preferable. That's what you personally can do |
| Enchanted Nights |
| Yeah, unfortunately you're a minor so you'd have to get your parents to do so if you were to get a restraining order. It's all up to them |
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| Calela Eventing |
| I was just about to say that. Top riders honestly give me this horrible feeling |
| Stormsong Manor |
| But look at Charlotte Dujardin. You never know what goes on behind closed doors |
| Stormsong Manor |
| Even worse when they've had a long, successful career on horseback and people look up to them. |
| Calela Eventing |
| Ven Jeez, wow. I cannot stand people like that, they should not be anywhere near horses or children |
| § Stablez |
| Can one post about a club in this chat or would that have to be in sales? |
| Stormsong Manor |
| My mother pulled me from my starting barn as a kid a few years into it because of property negligence that led to someone dying, then I pulled myself out of another barn as an older teen because my trainer snapped and had my friend beat the shit out of her horse in the middle of a lesson. |
| Stormsong Manor |
| That's very true. But something about the elitism and competitiveness in the horse world seems to aggravate it |
| Calela Eventing |
| Ven Tell me about it! I’m in a pretty small town as well so there’s not many options. Last barn I was at, the trainer emotionally abused me and forced me into unpaid labour. Sick women she was. What I need is a bigger backyard and screw all this barn nonsense |
| Glacier Bay Cove |
| In agreement with them concerning having your parents be involved, also if you have a personal voice recorder, that you can keep in your pocket, that would also provide evidence of how she treats you |
| Stormsong Manor |
| Not calling your experience stupid, just have way too many hours invested in the horse world to kid myself that there isn't drama in pretty much every barn lol |
| Hellion Ridge |
| I would try to capture her on video threatening you. If you did pursue legal action then that would be great evidence. |
| Calela Eventing |
| Ven I’m going to do that, thanks Honestly I also find it incredibly pathetic that she feels the need to treat a child like this |
| Stormsong Manor |
| Document all of her behavior in interactions with you in as much detail as you can, with recordings being preferable. That's what you personally can do |
| Enchanted Nights |
| Yeah, unfortunately you're a minor so you'd have to get your parents to do so if you were to get a restraining order. It's all up to them |
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