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Hummingbird Meadows
03:30:10 Bird
Well I just wasted $30 on a water fountain for my cat only for him to still prefer drinking from the bowl. 😑
Pegasus Lane
03:25:33 Peggy (or) Peg
I didn't ask either. It was pretty much "I'm sick, shouldn't be around people. Thanks" which she responded with "can't find anyone to replace you" and a snotty ass response about needing to be in Saturday and sunday 😭
The Old Gods
03:25:19 Void Malign
Well, not the case anymore. They can deny your request, write you up, or fire you for being absent. This, of course, assumes you have the sick days or time off to use
SandWitch Arabians
03:20:02 Witchypoo
When I was too ill to go to work, I'd call in sick of course and tell my boss I wasn't coming in.
I never asked if I could, as my health and those I'd be working with, aren't up to his decision.
It was always...my call.
Ravenwood Farm
03:13:16 
Uff I'm sorry about that Peggy :0
Pegasus Lane
03:11:33 Peggy (or) Peg
🙃
Minerva
03:10:50 Min
Oh fucking nora 0-0 I do not envy you one bit Peg
Pegasus Lane
03:10:22 Peggy (or) Peg
I already have chronic fatigue (hello lyme) 😅
Willow Wood Stable
03:10:13 Lo
Yeah... that's ass backwards.
Minerva
03:09:11 Min
Oh jeez- I'd tell them to fuck themselves then unless you're desperate for the money. Overworking yourself with a virus is only going to make you sicker. Could even lead to shit like chronic fatigue if you're really unlucky
Pegasus Lane
03:08:27 Peggy (or) Peg
And I work for the city? How on earth were they more understanding? Make it make sense 🤣
Crescent Estate
03:08:23 River / Crescent
Does anybody else have trouble uploading images into their 'about this stable description'? I can see it when I copy in the image address but when I click submit it disappears.
Pegasus Lane
03:07:07 Peggy (or) Peg
Yes 😫
My main job was so kind and understanding. This is a local family-owned seasonal job I picked up to help them out LMAO
Willow Wood Stable
03:07:03 Lo
Gotcha, Min xD
Willow Wood Stable
03:06:43 Lo
I get that economics are important to keeping society together, too, but my god.
Minerva
03:06:11 Min
We'll call it something else and not go into too much detail I think xD Safe to say, I'll be adding ham to my list of foods to steer clear from but otherwise I am alive and well lol.

Aww Peg, are you in the USA? Blows my mind that "I'm too ill to work" isn't the end of the conversation...
Willow Wood Stable
03:06:08 Lo
It absolutely does. Everything is about numbers, money, and labor. It's sick.
Pegasus Lane
03:05:41 Peggy (or) Peg
I'm home alone with 80 animals this week. I can barely take care of them right now, let alone stand on my feet for 10 hours and then come home to take care of them
Insignia Elites
03:04:56 Em
I feel like work just sees numbers and not people. We have familys and need to take care of ourselves
Pegasus Lane
03:04:33 Peggy (or) Peg
I'm pretty sure that's what I have. Definitely shouldn't be around anyone, let alone a mass of kids but whatever. It's on her

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Hummingbird Meadows
03:30:10 Bird
Well I just wasted $30 on a water fountain for my cat only for him to still prefer drinking from the bowl. 😑
Pegasus Lane
03:25:33 Peggy (or) Peg
I didn't ask either. It was pretty much "I'm sick, shouldn't be around people. Thanks" which she responded with "can't find anyone to replace you" and a snotty ass response about needing to be in Saturday and sunday 😭
The Old Gods
03:25:19 Void Malign
Well, not the case anymore. They can deny your request, write you up, or fire you for being absent. This, of course, assumes you have the sick days or time off to use
SandWitch Arabians
03:20:02 Witchypoo
When I was too ill to go to work, I'd call in sick of course and tell my boss I wasn't coming in.
I never asked if I could, as my health and those I'd be working with, aren't up to his decision.
It was always...my call.
Ravenwood Farm
03:13:16 
Uff I'm sorry about that Peggy :0
Pegasus Lane
03:11:33 Peggy (or) Peg
🙃
Minerva
03:10:50 Min
Oh fucking nora 0-0 I do not envy you one bit Peg
Pegasus Lane
03:10:22 Peggy (or) Peg
I already have chronic fatigue (hello lyme) 😅
Willow Wood Stable
03:10:13 Lo
Yeah... that's ass backwards.
Minerva
03:09:11 Min
Oh jeez- I'd tell them to fuck themselves then unless you're desperate for the money. Overworking yourself with a virus is only going to make you sicker. Could even lead to shit like chronic fatigue if you're really unlucky
Pegasus Lane
03:08:27 Peggy (or) Peg
And I work for the city? How on earth were they more understanding? Make it make sense 🤣
Crescent Estate
03:08:23 River / Crescent
Does anybody else have trouble uploading images into their 'about this stable description'? I can see it when I copy in the image address but when I click submit it disappears.
Pegasus Lane
03:07:07 Peggy (or) Peg
Yes 😫
My main job was so kind and understanding. This is a local family-owned seasonal job I picked up to help them out LMAO
Willow Wood Stable
03:07:03 Lo
Gotcha, Min xD
Willow Wood Stable
03:06:43 Lo
I get that economics are important to keeping society together, too, but my god.
Minerva
03:06:11 Min
We'll call it something else and not go into too much detail I think xD Safe to say, I'll be adding ham to my list of foods to steer clear from but otherwise I am alive and well lol.

Aww Peg, are you in the USA? Blows my mind that "I'm too ill to work" isn't the end of the conversation...
Willow Wood Stable
03:06:08 Lo
It absolutely does. Everything is about numbers, money, and labor. It's sick.
Pegasus Lane
03:05:41 Peggy (or) Peg
I'm home alone with 80 animals this week. I can barely take care of them right now, let alone stand on my feet for 10 hours and then come home to take care of them
Insignia Elites
03:04:56 Em
I feel like work just sees numbers and not people. We have familys and need to take care of ourselves
Pegasus Lane
03:04:33 Peggy (or) Peg
I'm pretty sure that's what I have. Definitely shouldn't be around anyone, let alone a mass of kids but whatever. It's on her

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Work and vet bill stress September 24, 2025 09:38 AM


Willow Grove
 
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So I schedule my supposedly in perfect health 2 year old cat to be neutered. Estimate for that is $700-$1k. For an 11 pound cat.

I go in yesterday for the EKG and bloodwork they do to make sure he can handle surgery and the sedation, that comes to $340. I get a call on it today saying his platelets are low (87k, normal is 200k) so they want another $100 to manually look at his blood. There was also concern for heart disease (yay!) and suggested chest xrays to determine if it is or not. Thats another $744. I really want to do them to rule it out or see what needs to be done if he does indeed have heart disease but I dont have that kind of money laying around. I work hardly above minimum wage.

All of this on top of starting something new at work and being in charge of all the phone calls today. I work in a law office, I was hired for real estate but the attorney decided to stop doing that and throw me into personal injury with no knowledge or experience. That is what im taking calls on today. Ive been given NO formal training, may have messed up once already because a client said they wanted to bring in papers and when I relayed that to the paralegal in the office she said the call was for her and they cant come in at that time for a meeting even though I was only told its to drop off papers. Today is going fucking wonderfully.

I honestly just need this to be over. I cant even find another job because the market is so garbage (us citizen). I apply to jobs im well overqualified for and still dont hear back ever. Hell I applied to clean kennels at a shelter and STILL didnt hear anything from them. I pet sit and own animals myself, im familiar with cleaning up pee, poop, vomit, etc. as well as giving stuff like oral meds. Its all stuff I can do/have done but somehow im not qualified.

Edited at September 24, 2025 09:47 AM by Willow Grove
Work and vet bill stress September 24, 2025 11:50 AM


ZeroZero
 
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I cannot believe those vet bills. This a night mare.
I must admit it is cheaper for neutering over here in UK. Which is a surprise as excesive vets bills has been raised as an issue here in parliament.
As for your job just don't panic. Even the way you write is so competant. You will overcome your initial lack of knowledge very quickly. You can do it.
Best of luck xx
Work and vet bill stress September 24, 2025 12:08 PM


Cadence Farms

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That's crazy. You might want to check if there are any low cost neuter/spay services in your area. Sometimes there are ones that do charitable type work with deep discounts.
Work and vet bill stress September 24, 2025 12:40 PM


Willow Grove
 
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ZeroZero said:
I cannot believe those vet bills. This a night mare.
I must admit it is cheaper for neutering over here in UK. Which is a surprise as excesive vets bills has been raised as an issue here in parliament.
As for your job just don't panic. Even the way you write is so competant. You will overcome your initial lack of knowledge very quickly. You can do it.
Best of luck xx


I couldnt either, I was expecting maybe 300 - 500 for his neuter and it ended up being double. The only reason im doing it there is because the clinic is offering $200 off spays and neuters. I also trust this vet as theyve handled all our animals and done good by them (2 dogs, another cat, and 2 rabbits). The other clinic thats near us, however, neglected our older dog. He would come in with bloody urine and pain and they would send him home with antibiotics and painkillers. Couple years later we go to our current clinic because the episode he has was during regular business hours instead of the middle of the night and they immediately find the problem. It was a grapefruit sized mass in his abdomen, likely cancer. They also said it couldnt have formed overnight and the other clinic should have been able to catch it. He unfortunately had to be put down because of it.
And thank you, I appreciate that. I try but it gets frustrating and overwhelming sometimes

Edited at September 24, 2025 01:53 PM by Willow Grove
Work and vet bill stress September 24, 2025 12:43 PM


Willow Grove
 
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Cadence Farms said:
That's crazy. You might want to check if there are any low cost neuter/spay services in your area. Sometimes there are ones that do charitable type work with deep discounts.


I did try that after I got the original quote but unfortunately every single one I called or tried to make an appointment with told me they were only taking ferals, no public pets. That would have been wonderful considering their prices were around $200 for a neuter. In the end I was left with trying a new clinic I know nothing about, a clinic we dont trust, and our current one.
Work and vet bill stress September 24, 2025 12:47 PM


Sunset River Arabian
 
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...We pay $50 to spay/neuter our cats...and it's considered a 'donation' not a fee. Thats insane. The place we go bases it off of your income bracket.
We've had 3 females spayed there and every single one came back healthy and healed well. 1 of them passed due to unrelated cause but the other 2 girls are going on 7 years of being completely healthy with no complications.

Edited at September 24, 2025 12:49 PM by Sunset River Arabian
Work and vet bill stress September 24, 2025 10:04 PM


Willow Grove
 
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Sunset River Arabian said:
...We pay $50 to spay/neuter our cats...and it's considered a 'donation' not a fee. Thats insane. The place we go bases it off of your income bracket.
We've had 3 females spayed there and every single one came back healthy and healed well. 1 of them passed due to unrelated cause but the other 2 girls are going on 7 years of being completely healthy with no complications.


It should be that way everywhere, honestly. With how big the stray issue is here in the US spays/neuters should be far more accessible than they are, not just for strays either. Instead they charge crazy high prices
Work and vet bill stress September 25, 2025 01:07 PM


Willow Grove
 
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So update:
The vet called me back this morning to tell me that even with the manual look his platelet count is still low & he needs to go in for another draw. This is another $200. On top of the already egregiously high quote I got originally and the extra $100 I spent yesterday to have it looked at manually.

I relay this information to my mother, who will be driving me, as I dont have a car. Instead of just understanding that its frustrating she decides to start going on about how I need to see if theres anything I can do to make his blood less sticky and clumpy despite the vet telling us (yes, BOTH of us. She heard it too)that cat blood is weird and sticky. Saying im "going down a rabbit hole" because im doing the REQUIRED testing for surgery. If his platelet count isnt high enough they wont do it because concern for bleeding. I also feel the need to add that it was my mother in the first place who pushed for him being neutered.

For context, I still live at home. Im 19, low income & not in school because of that. But I am doing my best with what I can. I pay her "rent" (pitch in for groceries and rent) and do what im told around the house as I should. My cat, Jiji, will occasionally have accidents. Not spraying, full on squatting, emptying his bladder, and vigorously trying to cover it up. Ive done everything I can think of to try and stop it, and to an extent its worked. An accident is rare now. The litter boxes are cleaned twice a day morning and night, if I havent seen him go potty all day & hes acting suspicious with a rather round stomach ill take him down to pee to prevent accidents. I will also have him go pee before I go to sleep if it feels necessary & clean the litter box immediately after so its nice and perfect, no reason for him to want to go elsewhere. My mom found one accident hidden that happened to stain the floor. For this she decided to threaten to send him to the shelter if I didnt get him neutered as soon as possible despite it not being marking. And now im here spending probably over $1000 total to neuter him. An 11 pound cat. An eleven pound cat, being neutered for $1k. Fucking absurd.

And now, while typing this, I find out that the opportunity I got last night to apply for a job making 50k a year with benefits and a good word in from someone high up in the company is no longer available. Its been offered to someone at the company already. This week just keeps getting worse and worse
Work and vet bill stress September 26, 2025 10:30 AM


The Lone Star
 
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That is insane. I had a similar experience trying to spay my dog recently. I trusted a vet I was bringing my last dog to. I didn't ask for the price and when they emailed me the consent forms before the surgery, they were quoting me 1.6k+. My German shepherd is a very smol girl, only around 70 lbs max. When I got my other dog spayed, it costed me around 400$ and she was about 60lbs. So I was guessing it would be around 500-600$ for my sheppie. I was speechless when I opened the email. 1.3k for the surgery, 200$+ for mandatory bloodwork, another hundred and so for parasite removal, which she recently had been tested for parasites and she was clean. So why do I have to pay to have her checked for parasites and have them removed, if we knew from her last check up a few weeks ago that she does not have parasites? And the knock out medication was not included, I had to pay for that too. The cheapest thing on the whole form was the cone of shame, at 40$. Needless to say, I cancelled the appointment. I'm looking for another vet now.
Work and vet bill stress September 26, 2025 10:37 AM


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I also have a suspicion that the vet I went to overcharges because they know they're one of the only veterinary hospitals in the area.

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