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Glacier Bay Cove
09:57:02 Glacier Kittens
In agreement with them concerning having your parents be involved, also if you have a personal voice recorder, that you can keep in your pocket, that would also provide evidence of how she treats you
Stormsong Manor
09:56:03 Ven
Not calling your experience stupid, just have way too many hours invested in the horse world to kid myself that there isn't drama in pretty much every barn lol
Stormsong Manor
09:54:59 Ven
Sounds like stupid barn drama
Hellion Ridge
09:54:49 Chiral | ToTo Chaser
I would try to capture her on video threatening you. If you did pursue legal action then that would be great evidence.
Calela Eventing
09:54:25 Cali
Ven
I’m going to do that, thanks

Honestly I also find it incredibly pathetic that she feels the need to treat a child like this
Stormsong Manor
09:53:09 Ven
Document all of her behavior in interactions with you in as much detail as you can, with recordings being preferable. That's what you personally can do
Enchanted Nights
09:53:03 Skvll_
Yeah, unfortunately you're a minor so you'd have to get your parents to do so if you were to get a restraining order. It's all up to them
Calela Eventing
09:52:03 Cali
Jeri
Yeah, when they’re actually around I will. My father has stepped and expressed wanting to file some sort of complaint to get her away from me as well
Stormsong Manor
09:51:52 Ven
You cannot file if you're 13. Need to have an adult do it.
Maco Stables
09:51:40 Maco
Wow, what a pathetic lady.
I'm sorry you had to go through that, defenetly seek your parents advice
Enchanted Nights
09:50:40 Skvll_
I wouldn't personally get a restraining order. I'd report her but I wouldn't go that far quite yet. Restraining orders require a lot of court and it's intimidating at the least. She's a grown woman and should not be talking the way she is. I'd report her, but nothing else yet. That's my view. Stay safe <3
Stormsong Manor
09:50:31 Ven
Wow, yeah what Jeri said. Parents need to be handling this
Angels angels
09:50:20 [1k+ brindles] Angel
I am proud of myself. I need two more straws they are 20k each. But I may have to use LCs if the owner doesn't get online but I have plenty of ebs. Way more than I need for the straws and RO lol
Jericho Stables
09:50:02 
Well if you're 13 then I say talk to your parents...
Calela Eventing
09:49:48 Cali
How did the papering process go and what is the necessary incidents to aquire law access to a restraining order
Stormsong Manor
09:49:17 Ven
110% consult actual legal counsel to explore your options if you feel you're in the position for a restraining order
Calela Eventing
09:48:55 Cali
Okay so there’s someone who boards at my livery barn and she’s so awful to me. Last time I was there she screamed in my face, swore at me and threatened me and my horse. I’m 13 and she’s somewhat in her 40s with two kids. I’ve dealt with emotional abuse before and it sets me off hearing her scream. I felt sick for days afterwards and even her name makes me feel sick. I want her to fuck off and leave me alone, my parents got involved and the barn said that the lady is sooo nice and would never . I don’t know what to do but I panic at the sound of her name now and yeah.
Tenebris Hollow
09:47:34 Aris/Quinn
A restraining order? Jeez cali i hope you are safe
Circle Star RIDs
09:47:08 Granny C
Cali - you're better off talking with a lawyer
Enchanted Nights
09:46:09 Skvll_
I can maybe help

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Glacier Bay Cove
09:57:02 Glacier Kittens
In agreement with them concerning having your parents be involved, also if you have a personal voice recorder, that you can keep in your pocket, that would also provide evidence of how she treats you
Stormsong Manor
09:56:03 Ven
Not calling your experience stupid, just have way too many hours invested in the horse world to kid myself that there isn't drama in pretty much every barn lol
Stormsong Manor
09:54:59 Ven
Sounds like stupid barn drama
Hellion Ridge
09:54:49 Chiral | ToTo Chaser
I would try to capture her on video threatening you. If you did pursue legal action then that would be great evidence.
Calela Eventing
09:54:25 Cali
Ven
I’m going to do that, thanks

Honestly I also find it incredibly pathetic that she feels the need to treat a child like this
Stormsong Manor
09:53:09 Ven
Document all of her behavior in interactions with you in as much detail as you can, with recordings being preferable. That's what you personally can do
Enchanted Nights
09:53:03 Skvll_
Yeah, unfortunately you're a minor so you'd have to get your parents to do so if you were to get a restraining order. It's all up to them
Calela Eventing
09:52:03 Cali
Jeri
Yeah, when they’re actually around I will. My father has stepped and expressed wanting to file some sort of complaint to get her away from me as well
Stormsong Manor
09:51:52 Ven
You cannot file if you're 13. Need to have an adult do it.
Maco Stables
09:51:40 Maco
Wow, what a pathetic lady.
I'm sorry you had to go through that, defenetly seek your parents advice
Enchanted Nights
09:50:40 Skvll_
I wouldn't personally get a restraining order. I'd report her but I wouldn't go that far quite yet. Restraining orders require a lot of court and it's intimidating at the least. She's a grown woman and should not be talking the way she is. I'd report her, but nothing else yet. That's my view. Stay safe <3
Stormsong Manor
09:50:31 Ven
Wow, yeah what Jeri said. Parents need to be handling this
Angels angels
09:50:20 [1k+ brindles] Angel
I am proud of myself. I need two more straws they are 20k each. But I may have to use LCs if the owner doesn't get online but I have plenty of ebs. Way more than I need for the straws and RO lol
Jericho Stables
09:50:02 
Well if you're 13 then I say talk to your parents...
Calela Eventing
09:49:48 Cali
How did the papering process go and what is the necessary incidents to aquire law access to a restraining order
Stormsong Manor
09:49:17 Ven
110% consult actual legal counsel to explore your options if you feel you're in the position for a restraining order
Calela Eventing
09:48:55 Cali
Okay so there’s someone who boards at my livery barn and she’s so awful to me. Last time I was there she screamed in my face, swore at me and threatened me and my horse. I’m 13 and she’s somewhat in her 40s with two kids. I’ve dealt with emotional abuse before and it sets me off hearing her scream. I felt sick for days afterwards and even her name makes me feel sick. I want her to fuck off and leave me alone, my parents got involved and the barn said that the lady is sooo nice and would never . I don’t know what to do but I panic at the sound of her name now and yeah.
Tenebris Hollow
09:47:34 Aris/Quinn
A restraining order? Jeez cali i hope you are safe
Circle Star RIDs
09:47:08 Granny C
Cali - you're better off talking with a lawyer
Enchanted Nights
09:46:09 Skvll_
I can maybe help

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Anxiety August 18, 2025 05:51 AM


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Anxiety August 18, 2025 01:45 PM


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One thing that has helped me, later on after I left school, everyone else is the same as you.
Think of the teacher, they are desperate for you to do well. Ask questions when you can, maybe by e-mail if you can't catch them face to face. They are happy to help, they want their students to thrive.
Same at work, almost everyone is keen for you to do well, they want to teach you and support you so you stay and make their own lives better at work with your support as you grow.
If somone freezes you out in the corridor, it's because they have something on their mind and did not even notice you.
Someone gives you a funny look, it is most likely they are thinking of somthing else and just happened to be looking your way.
Don't imagine that you are the center of the world. Thank god we are not; we just play at the edges!
Also no one can hear your thoughts, also thank god for that.
Be gentle with yourself. Everything takes time for everyone.
It takes time to figure out that balance of aloneness, getting space, yet not letting yourself get isolated and ensuring you have a few people you can share time with, it helps you feel real.
I'm still learning.

Edited at August 18, 2025 01:48 PM by ZeroZero
Anxiety August 25, 2025 11:27 PM


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Medication has its ups and downs and it took a bit to find one that worked for me. Meds may not be for everyone, but I used to beg my mom to let me be homeschooled, Panic attacks, crying. But now after a couple years I doing pretty good in the anxiety department. Of course meds didnt rid me of anxiety but It keps it at bay and now I can go to school,work meet new people (even if it is scary) and even have A girlfriend

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