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Gemstone Stable
06:57:40 Snow❆Gem
@khaos

Yes! I know I have my own oddness, but I don't put it out there in public...
Gemstone Stable
06:56:49 Snow❆Gem
@green

Hm, yes. I should let someone know. Maybe a gal a bit younger them me, and one/both of the lady managers.
The Feral Equine
06:56:28 Khaos
People are weird
Gemstone Stable
06:55:22 Snow❆Gem
@khaos

Oh dear... >.< Maybe, only claws or if you grow two more legs. lol
Greenheart Stables
06:53:50 Gren|Grenlin|Snek
Tell a manager, report and let other workers know about the guy.
Firmly but without escalation tell the customer he's too close and your not interested it their's uncomfortable flirting
The Feral Equine
06:53:06 Khaos
We have a client at my work that brings his dog in for nail trims once a month and he regularly asks if we can do a nail trim for him and it's so awkward.
Gemstone Stable
06:52:27 Snow❆Gem
@jericho

Oh dear! Some things shouldn't even come out of the mouth in public.

I work in a grocery store by the way. :)
Jericho Stables
06:50:40 
When I worked retail I had a regular customer come in, he was one that we all were comfortable with, would talk and joke around with. But he said one inappropriate comment to me and my manager banned him.
Gemstone Stable
06:49:39 Snow❆Gem
@jericho

Agreed. And its hard to keep track of all those grey hairs. LMAO

I may ask them to back up sometime. Went I get more confidence. I'm a bit of a weakling confidence wise. >.>
Sunni
06:49:29 Sunni bunny
Gem Jericho probably got the best advice so far.
Gemstone Stable
06:47:16 Snow❆Gem
@down

LMAO I don't wanna lose my job. ;P

@witchy

Yeah. But they don't come close until I turn around and acknowledge them. Like I 'opened the door' and invited them closer. >.<
Jericho Stables
06:46:21 
Well none of those are professional options... If it is one person who does it over and over, tell a supervisor. They should take steps to bar the customer for inappropriate conduct. Or you know, tell them that you're not interested and to please back up.
Gemstone Stable
06:45:24 Snow❆Gem
Or boop them one, but that's on grounds of a fine. lol
Nightfall Dressage
06:45:18 Witchy
Gem
Act shocked that they can see you
Down South Stud
06:44:44 
Slap them. Choose violence 😆
Sunni
06:44:26 Sunni bunny
Rose pretty TB!

Green that's gonna be a good SD foal right there.

Green if you wanna freak them out, tell them " I love eye ball soup."
They will freeze and look at you confused.
Then smile big and say it again.
Gemstone Stable
06:44:20 Snow❆Gem
@witchy

Yup. I seriously just wanna walk away or push them away harshly. How are they gonna learn to not do that?
Nightfall Dressage
06:42:44 Witchy
Gem
A living nightmare
Gemstone Stable
06:41:32 Snow❆Gem
What would you call it, if a guy customer comes too close, leans in a bit, and talks a bit too quiet? Flirting, hitting on, what?

I keep getting 50+ guys doing that to me. And I'm almost 30, they're old enough to be my dad. O.o
Greenheart Stables
06:40:45 Gren|Grenlin|Snek
-HEE Click-
Ooh this guy

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Gemstone Stable
06:57:40 Snow❆Gem
@khaos

Yes! I know I have my own oddness, but I don't put it out there in public...
Gemstone Stable
06:56:49 Snow❆Gem
@green

Hm, yes. I should let someone know. Maybe a gal a bit younger them me, and one/both of the lady managers.
The Feral Equine
06:56:28 Khaos
People are weird
Gemstone Stable
06:55:22 Snow❆Gem
@khaos

Oh dear... >.< Maybe, only claws or if you grow two more legs. lol
Greenheart Stables
06:53:50 Gren|Grenlin|Snek
Tell a manager, report and let other workers know about the guy.
Firmly but without escalation tell the customer he's too close and your not interested it their's uncomfortable flirting
The Feral Equine
06:53:06 Khaos
We have a client at my work that brings his dog in for nail trims once a month and he regularly asks if we can do a nail trim for him and it's so awkward.
Gemstone Stable
06:52:27 Snow❆Gem
@jericho

Oh dear! Some things shouldn't even come out of the mouth in public.

I work in a grocery store by the way. :)
Jericho Stables
06:50:40 
When I worked retail I had a regular customer come in, he was one that we all were comfortable with, would talk and joke around with. But he said one inappropriate comment to me and my manager banned him.
Gemstone Stable
06:49:39 Snow❆Gem
@jericho

Agreed. And its hard to keep track of all those grey hairs. LMAO

I may ask them to back up sometime. Went I get more confidence. I'm a bit of a weakling confidence wise. >.>
Sunni
06:49:29 Sunni bunny
Gem Jericho probably got the best advice so far.
Gemstone Stable
06:47:16 Snow❆Gem
@down

LMAO I don't wanna lose my job. ;P

@witchy

Yeah. But they don't come close until I turn around and acknowledge them. Like I 'opened the door' and invited them closer. >.<
Jericho Stables
06:46:21 
Well none of those are professional options... If it is one person who does it over and over, tell a supervisor. They should take steps to bar the customer for inappropriate conduct. Or you know, tell them that you're not interested and to please back up.
Gemstone Stable
06:45:24 Snow❆Gem
Or boop them one, but that's on grounds of a fine. lol
Nightfall Dressage
06:45:18 Witchy
Gem
Act shocked that they can see you
Down South Stud
06:44:44 
Slap them. Choose violence 😆
Sunni
06:44:26 Sunni bunny
Rose pretty TB!

Green that's gonna be a good SD foal right there.

Green if you wanna freak them out, tell them " I love eye ball soup."
They will freeze and look at you confused.
Then smile big and say it again.
Gemstone Stable
06:44:20 Snow❆Gem
@witchy

Yup. I seriously just wanna walk away or push them away harshly. How are they gonna learn to not do that?
Nightfall Dressage
06:42:44 Witchy
Gem
A living nightmare
Gemstone Stable
06:41:32 Snow❆Gem
What would you call it, if a guy customer comes too close, leans in a bit, and talks a bit too quiet? Flirting, hitting on, what?

I keep getting 50+ guys doing that to me. And I'm almost 30, they're old enough to be my dad. O.o
Greenheart Stables
06:40:45 Gren|Grenlin|Snek
-HEE Click-
Ooh this guy

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Anxiety August 18, 2025 05:51 AM


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Anxiety August 18, 2025 01:45 PM


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One thing that has helped me, later on after I left school, everyone else is the same as you.
Think of the teacher, they are desperate for you to do well. Ask questions when you can, maybe by e-mail if you can't catch them face to face. They are happy to help, they want their students to thrive.
Same at work, almost everyone is keen for you to do well, they want to teach you and support you so you stay and make their own lives better at work with your support as you grow.
If somone freezes you out in the corridor, it's because they have something on their mind and did not even notice you.
Someone gives you a funny look, it is most likely they are thinking of somthing else and just happened to be looking your way.
Don't imagine that you are the center of the world. Thank god we are not; we just play at the edges!
Also no one can hear your thoughts, also thank god for that.
Be gentle with yourself. Everything takes time for everyone.
It takes time to figure out that balance of aloneness, getting space, yet not letting yourself get isolated and ensuring you have a few people you can share time with, it helps you feel real.
I'm still learning.

Edited at August 18, 2025 01:48 PM by ZeroZero
Anxiety August 25, 2025 11:27 PM


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Medication has its ups and downs and it took a bit to find one that worked for me. Meds may not be for everyone, but I used to beg my mom to let me be homeschooled, Panic attacks, crying. But now after a couple years I doing pretty good in the anxiety department. Of course meds didnt rid me of anxiety but It keps it at bay and now I can go to school,work meet new people (even if it is scary) and even have A girlfriend

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