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Sunni
01:41:27 Sunni bunny
Min, I feel that.
My doctor wants to me find a new emotional health place.
The last appointment I had was 6 months out...and I missed it because I was in the hospital.
It's still 6 months to be seen again.
The Old Gods
01:40:49 Void Malign
I'm very likely autistic, but won't bother being tested for it. At my age, it wouldn't do anything besides being another diagnosis on the pile
Stormsong Manor
01:40:34 Ven
She also works and drives, lives a normal life aside from not being completely independent
Transformers Acres
01:40:24 Geek, Greek Yogurt
I just never got diagnosed, but my brother is diagnosed with ADHD.
Stormsong Manor
01:40:02 Ven
One of my best friends has an extremely academically successful sister who is autistic. She is a delight.
Transformers Acres
01:39:58 Geek, Greek Yogurt
My friends, who are diagnosed with ADHD, say I have it, because I struggle to focus without background noise, I struggle to stay organized, I get forgetful all the time, I constantly fidget, can't stay still, I lose things all the time.
~Savy~
01:39:57 Sav
ADHD is a shitshow to understand because we don't understand the mechanisms. Every neuro paper i've read has had different mechanisms. Societal expectations don't help either :D
Sunni
01:39:40 Sunni bunny
Ven, that's true.
Therian Warren!
01:39:40 
Im autistic :3
Dash and Duchess
01:39:37 DD | ~Squizard~
lol, seems like everyone here xD I'm in the process of finally getting tested for it lol
Stormsong Manor
01:39:29 Ven
I just kinda internalized all the negative things my parents accused me of being
Minerva
01:39:13 Min
It's strongly suspected that I'm autistic, but I wasn't tested as a child because I was academically very successful. I've thought about getting tested now I'm an adult, but the wait lists are so long and the process sounds like a pain in the arse so I'll just go along doing my own little thing xD
Stormsong Manor
01:39:07 Ven
I wasn't diagnosed until my early thirties
Sunstone Elite
01:38:34 Sun/Sunny
LOL I can vouch for that Ven. I kinda knew I had ADHD but. Officially got diagnosed a year ago.
~Savy~
01:38:33 Sav
Jesus. I live with my sister who is expecting her first, and it still doesn't feel real. Like, what do you mean there's going to be an actual human child here in two months
Sunni
01:38:08 Sunni bunny
Ven, that's good tho.
I see a lot of kids struggling in school.
I think I just found out the best way to teach my daughter.
She learns through games and fun.
My son you have to be more straight forward to.
Stormsong Manor
01:37:06 Ven
I know. It's insane. He's seven
Stormsong Manor
01:36:35 Ven
Women are often delayed in getting an Au/ADHD diagnoses because we present differently than the boys, who are more obvious
~Savy~
01:36:21 Sav
I can't believe it has been that long Ven - what do you mean he isn't still just a little baby?
Sunni
01:35:42 Sunni bunny
Fire, I honestly think I need to be tested.
I found out the doctor wanted me to be checked.
She told the doctor nope I couldn't be autistic.
Honestly would have probably helped me in school and gave me the resources I need.
I am looking into school for my son, so far we haven't found anything we like.
I want school to be fun for him so badly.

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Sunni
01:41:27 Sunni bunny
Min, I feel that.
My doctor wants to me find a new emotional health place.
The last appointment I had was 6 months out...and I missed it because I was in the hospital.
It's still 6 months to be seen again.
The Old Gods
01:40:49 Void Malign
I'm very likely autistic, but won't bother being tested for it. At my age, it wouldn't do anything besides being another diagnosis on the pile
Stormsong Manor
01:40:34 Ven
She also works and drives, lives a normal life aside from not being completely independent
Transformers Acres
01:40:24 Geek, Greek Yogurt
I just never got diagnosed, but my brother is diagnosed with ADHD.
Stormsong Manor
01:40:02 Ven
One of my best friends has an extremely academically successful sister who is autistic. She is a delight.
Transformers Acres
01:39:58 Geek, Greek Yogurt
My friends, who are diagnosed with ADHD, say I have it, because I struggle to focus without background noise, I struggle to stay organized, I get forgetful all the time, I constantly fidget, can't stay still, I lose things all the time.
~Savy~
01:39:57 Sav
ADHD is a shitshow to understand because we don't understand the mechanisms. Every neuro paper i've read has had different mechanisms. Societal expectations don't help either :D
Sunni
01:39:40 Sunni bunny
Ven, that's true.
Therian Warren!
01:39:40 
Im autistic :3
Dash and Duchess
01:39:37 DD | ~Squizard~
lol, seems like everyone here xD I'm in the process of finally getting tested for it lol
Stormsong Manor
01:39:29 Ven
I just kinda internalized all the negative things my parents accused me of being
Minerva
01:39:13 Min
It's strongly suspected that I'm autistic, but I wasn't tested as a child because I was academically very successful. I've thought about getting tested now I'm an adult, but the wait lists are so long and the process sounds like a pain in the arse so I'll just go along doing my own little thing xD
Stormsong Manor
01:39:07 Ven
I wasn't diagnosed until my early thirties
Sunstone Elite
01:38:34 Sun/Sunny
LOL I can vouch for that Ven. I kinda knew I had ADHD but. Officially got diagnosed a year ago.
~Savy~
01:38:33 Sav
Jesus. I live with my sister who is expecting her first, and it still doesn't feel real. Like, what do you mean there's going to be an actual human child here in two months
Sunni
01:38:08 Sunni bunny
Ven, that's good tho.
I see a lot of kids struggling in school.
I think I just found out the best way to teach my daughter.
She learns through games and fun.
My son you have to be more straight forward to.
Stormsong Manor
01:37:06 Ven
I know. It's insane. He's seven
Stormsong Manor
01:36:35 Ven
Women are often delayed in getting an Au/ADHD diagnoses because we present differently than the boys, who are more obvious
~Savy~
01:36:21 Sav
I can't believe it has been that long Ven - what do you mean he isn't still just a little baby?
Sunni
01:35:42 Sunni bunny
Fire, I honestly think I need to be tested.
I found out the doctor wanted me to be checked.
She told the doctor nope I couldn't be autistic.
Honestly would have probably helped me in school and gave me the resources I need.
I am looking into school for my son, so far we haven't found anything we like.
I want school to be fun for him so badly.

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Asshole people with no respect for anything December 12, 2022 12:11 PM


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Go to the owner of the barn and complain. Assuming you are a paying boarder and have not agreed to have your horse used for anything other than unsupervised lessons with permission, the person who took your horse out is wildly in the wrong and should face reprecussions. Unfortunatley its that simple.

If the owner doesnt care, thats another story. But until you alert the person in charge, nothing will change.

Asshole people with no respect for anything December 12, 2022 07:56 PM


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I was able to talk to my trainer aka the owner and she said she will look into it because we do have cameras (it's not because she doesn't believe me it's because she wants to see how many horses she has taken out without permission and for how long exactly) In the meantime we are putting bike locks (or at least I have) on my stall and she is out of lessons because of the hoof. After talking to the owner the lady is luckily short-term. She is actually there because we have a equine vet right up the street so you could walk there. So she is there so her horse can have proper stall rest; the vets office has a boarding/overnight barn for healing horses but it's full and the only at her barn is a quarantine barn. So she was directed here. We have 1-2 more weeks of suffering with her.
But does anyone feel im overreacting with a bike lock? I honestly kind of thought of something random. If someone has a better idea im all ears. Also I go there every day to clean her stall and feed her. And the owner knows the code in case of emergency and I'm not there.
the thing is I can't decide if I want to ask my trainer to boot the woman because as bitchy as she is I've had a rough year and I know what it's like. It doesn't make it acceptable that she rode my horse though.
Asshole people with no respect for anything December 12, 2022 08:02 PM


FirstLightFarms

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Bike lock is a terrible idea. God forbid your mare gets cast or there's a barn fire, somebody needs to be able to access her ASAP without dealing with a lock.
The woman needs to get kicked out. Having a bad year is no excuse for using other people's horses without permission.
Asshole people with no respect for anything December 12, 2022 08:02 PM


Kingfisher Cove
 
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It sounds like the owner is looking into it and is taking it seriously. Give her the chance to talk to the girl and if you have to suffer having her for another 1-2 weeks I think you can handle it. ;) If she stays and does it again that is another story.

If possible maybe reach out to the girl yourself and say she doesn't have permission to ride your horse despite "lesson privileges" and what not. Just be polite about it even though she may not deserve it.

Edited at December 12, 2022 08:03 PM by Silver Isle Eventing
Asshole people with no respect for anything December 13, 2022 11:44 AM


Hawkeye Farms
 
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I have to agree with FirstLight a bike lock is a bad idea because of safety issues. Instead I would put a break away string on the latch. That way if there is an emergency barn fire, horse casting itself, or something else, there's still fast access to the stall and get the horse to safety. That way when you're not there and someone enters your horse's stall you'll know someone was messing with her without your premission and you can ask the owner if she went into the stall. Of course you can share that plan with the owner and she can keep an eye on the latch as well.
Asshole people with no respect for anything December 13, 2022 01:25 PM


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Hawkeye Farms said:
I have to agree with FirstLight a bike lock is a bad idea because of safety issues. Instead I would put a break away string on the latch. That way if there is an emergency barn fire, horse casting itself, or something else, there's still fast access to the stall and get the horse to safety. That way when you're not there and someone enters your horse's stall you'll know someone was messing with her without your premission and you can ask the owner if she went into the stall. Of course you can share that plan with the owner and she can keep an eye on the latch as well.


After what Firstlight said I realized I hadn't thought that far and I appreciate that being brought to my attention so I removed it earlier today. I will look into getting a break away string, it sounds like a good idea so thank you!
Asshole people with no respect for anything December 13, 2022 01:33 PM


Hawkeye Farms
 
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A break away string can be anything easily broken like a piece of hair, thin piece of dental floss, or even a bit of tape taped to the stall door and wall. It would be something someone really wouldn't notice at all. And you're very welcome for the suggestion.

Bluebonnet Estates said:

Hawkeye Farms said:
I have to agree with FirstLight a bike lock is a bad idea because of safety issues. Instead I would put a break away string on the latch. That way if there is an emergency barn fire, horse casting itself, or something else, there's still fast access to the stall and get the horse to safety. That way when you're not there and someone enters your horse's stall you'll know someone was messing with her without your premission and you can ask the owner if she went into the stall. Of course you can share that plan with the owner and she can keep an eye on the latch as well.


After what Firstlight said I realized I hadn't thought that far and I appreciate that being brought to my attention so I removed it earlier today. I will look into getting a break away string, it sounds like a good idea so thank you!



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