Windy with Flurries| Gem Queens Estate |
| @puck Yup. Nice chap but that's like his only problem I know of. @bay Yeah. If I can get the words out nicely without half fainting. Some things I've never done socially and I feel like I'm out of breath and about to see white. >.< |
| Palomino Paridise |
| bro nah i get that like when my little brother wont get out of my space and i get mad at him because i told him multable times to "please get out of my space" and then get in trouble for being mad at him |
| Nordic Designs |
| That and people staring... I start making super insane smiling face at them until they look away |
| Nordic Designs |
| ive had old ladies also hit me with their carts and then tell me we just have to be patient when I turn around and stare at them *facepalm* Im a lack of personal space magnet |
| Nordic Designs |
| I also a couple years ago told a co worker to stop touching me. She didnt, and another co worker saw, so I said if she touches me one more time Im going to lose my shit. I walked off, and later walked back to said co worker then repeating what I had said to him. A THIRD coworker was just trying to shoo me away and being really bitchy to me about it. I was like "excuse me for enjoying personal space" grabbed my drinks they were indulging in and left |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @keo Great idea. I just get in his way if he's too close. lol Wait your turn bud. |
| Glacier Bay Cove |
| Gem, can you pull him to the side and gently let him know that most people get uncomfortable when other people stand to close to them, in a polite way |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @puck LMAO Yes! But I get such a dry mouth at work sometimes. I think its either super low humidity or all the cardboard boxes. |
| Nordic Designs |
| it was the isle that was the checkout line.. like its not going anywhere just wait until you get there. makes me miss covid |
| Nordic Designs |
| The other day, I got tired of a person behind me in ross literally reaching over my shoulder or leaning down and reaching by my cart to grab at something in the isle. Eventually I was like screw this im going to put my weight on the leg in the back and stop moving away from her. She then ran into me and I was like "yeah, personal space" and she backed off... like BRO get the fuck out of my bubble |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @bay Yup. He's nice, but is he clueless about personal space? What if he does it to someone and they lash out? Even a tongue lashing would greatly hurt him, I think... |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @sprite He's pretty too! I love the white mane parts from the white neck spots. :D |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| Why do some people stand so close? I understand the ones in line, the ones that talk too close, and ones up to no good. More like the type that seem to feel the need to be close to someone. He's 20 and the stressed out type. I'm guessing insecurity? Or l literally showing he's one the persons side. lol He does it to a few coworkers including me. Thoughts? |
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| Gem Queens Estate |
| @puck Yup. Nice chap but that's like his only problem I know of. @bay Yeah. If I can get the words out nicely without half fainting. Some things I've never done socially and I feel like I'm out of breath and about to see white. >.< |
| Palomino Paridise |
| bro nah i get that like when my little brother wont get out of my space and i get mad at him because i told him multable times to "please get out of my space" and then get in trouble for being mad at him |
| Nordic Designs |
| That and people staring... I start making super insane smiling face at them until they look away |
| Nordic Designs |
| ive had old ladies also hit me with their carts and then tell me we just have to be patient when I turn around and stare at them *facepalm* Im a lack of personal space magnet |
| Nordic Designs |
| I also a couple years ago told a co worker to stop touching me. She didnt, and another co worker saw, so I said if she touches me one more time Im going to lose my shit. I walked off, and later walked back to said co worker then repeating what I had said to him. A THIRD coworker was just trying to shoo me away and being really bitchy to me about it. I was like "excuse me for enjoying personal space" grabbed my drinks they were indulging in and left |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @keo Great idea. I just get in his way if he's too close. lol Wait your turn bud. |
| Glacier Bay Cove |
| Gem, can you pull him to the side and gently let him know that most people get uncomfortable when other people stand to close to them, in a polite way |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @puck LMAO Yes! But I get such a dry mouth at work sometimes. I think its either super low humidity or all the cardboard boxes. |
| Nordic Designs |
| it was the isle that was the checkout line.. like its not going anywhere just wait until you get there. makes me miss covid |
| Nordic Designs |
| The other day, I got tired of a person behind me in ross literally reaching over my shoulder or leaning down and reaching by my cart to grab at something in the isle. Eventually I was like screw this im going to put my weight on the leg in the back and stop moving away from her. She then ran into me and I was like "yeah, personal space" and she backed off... like BRO get the fuck out of my bubble |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @bay Yup. He's nice, but is he clueless about personal space? What if he does it to someone and they lash out? Even a tongue lashing would greatly hurt him, I think... |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| @sprite He's pretty too! I love the white mane parts from the white neck spots. :D |
| Gem Queens Estate |
| Why do some people stand so close? I understand the ones in line, the ones that talk too close, and ones up to no good. More like the type that seem to feel the need to be close to someone. He's 20 and the stressed out type. I'm guessing insecurity? Or l literally showing he's one the persons side. lol He does it to a few coworkers including me. Thoughts? |
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