| Scared | August 3, 2026 05:59 AM |
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Hey guys Hey guys Today I asked my ex out( I was thinking about how I was feeeing and realised I missed him) I emailed asking can we talk after school and he said yeah. So I asked him he said he would think about it ( because last time he was really pushy about holding hands and stuff) so he said I'll text you later.he texted me later and was asking stuff like would you change, wouldn't it be weird if we got back together. Eventually he said yes but I asked if we you just be in the talking stage for a bit to get used to it and stuff like that.so I hope we can hang out more not pressed and by our selfs sorry for the long post but I needed to get things out some were fire 🔥
I am kinda scared to see what happens any advice (also mods feel free to move if this isn't were it should be |
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| Scared | August 3, 2026 06:02 AM |
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You did the right thing by realizing you missed him <3333. You should see is you can come to an agreement about like how pushy is too pushy and such. You got this! |
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| Scared | August 3, 2026 06:14 AM |
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Thanks I also felt really free not dating him but one of his friends got in trouble and got moved next to me in class so I asked if I asked him would he reject I was scared of rejection but I knew I he wanted me he would |
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| Scared | August 4, 2026 04:07 AM |
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any other advice for exs or boy friedns |
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| Scared | August 9, 2026 10:20 PM |
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A little advice, communication is key. Talking is one thing but communicating properly is another. You have to be willing to listen to him and vice versa. I'm not sure on who's end was being pushy but start there. What your boundaries are and what his are at the start of the relationship etc. and move from there. |
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| Scared | August 9, 2026 10:34 PM |
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Just hang out and spend time together and see where it goes. Don't feel like you need to jump into a committed relationship label. Let it take its course :) |
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| Scared | August 9, 2026 10:52 PM |
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ok thank you guys for this its really scary knonwing were it could go |
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| Scared | August 11, 2026 12:23 AM |
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fire said:
ok thank you guys for this its really scary knonwing were it could go
My question would be, why is it scary? We talking good scary or bad scary because if there's anything about him that genuinely scares you that is a red flag and should be either addressed or your clue that your decision to break up the first time was probably correct. But do know that you're young (still in school) and it's definitely not the end of the world if you don't date him (or anyone else) right now. It's ok to miss a dynamic but it may be wiser not to get wrapped up in that at the moment. And I've known a number of people who dated and broke up in school who eventually met again as adults and got along way better at that point in their loves and had a wonderful, loving relationship. So try not to sweat it too much! ❤️ |
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| Scared | August 11, 2026 01:39 AM |
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| Scared | August 11, 2026 05:11 AM |
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he is starting to want t do stuff even though in our texts he hasent said i love you and only today started hearts what do i do |
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